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Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Category Archives: Sexuality
Sex and Therapy
I got an interesting Formspring question the other day, and I thought it was worth reposting and expanding on here. What are your opinions about sexual deviance in the context of therapy? You personally seem to embrace so-called slut identity and repost from self-identified nymphomaniacs, so what does that mean to you therapeutically (in practice) [...]
Also posted in Psychobabble, Sex Miscellany 3 Comments
Safer Sex
I think that this comment deserves a post all it’s own to receive the answer. Half Pint says: “You rarely address the issue of safe sex. When you have sex with strangers, do you use a condom and/or dental dam? How often are you tested for STDs? What do you consider a “safe” amount of [...]
To all the kick ass, beautiful, fierce femmes…
Sinclair Sexsmith posted this on his blog, and I had to repost it here. It made me cry. Sob, actually. This is Ivan E. Coyote speaking at this year’s Speak Up! I want to thank Ivan for his words, because it’s true. We do often feel invisible and unnoticed. And it’s also true that we [...]
Also posted in Awesomeness, SGO, Standards of Beauty 9 Comments
Glee-fully Gay
It should come as no surprise that I love Glee. I mean, come on. It’s the gayest fucking show on television. PLUS! Singing! And it’s fuckin’ funny, man! But there was one joke (very subtle, very sly joke), one reference (very subtle, very sly reference) that I really loved, because it reflected me. Before you [...]
Also posted in Culture Goes Pop, SGO, Sexcapades 1 Comment
On Heterosexual Privilege
Queen_George wrote a (very personal) post the other day, and my comment went off on a tangent that I decided I needed to turn into my own post. Interestingly enough, it’s something I’ve found myself talking about with people a lot recently. It involves privilege, namely heterosexual privilege. On Queen_George’s post, I said [sic]: I [...]
Also posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, SGO, Soul Searching 15 Comments
Book Club: The Commitment
I was very excited to learn that we were reading The Commitment: Love, Sex, Marriage, and My Family by Dan Savage this month. I first read it several years ago at the recommendation of Molls, and it quickly became one of my favorite books. Now, it should go without saying that I love Dan Savage. [...]
Also posted in Book Club, Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, SGO Comments closed
Monogamy is Not the Only Answer
I admire Mo’Nique a lot. I think she was fantastic in Precious. I admire her ability to buck traditional standards of beauty, especially in Hollywood, and refuse to shave her legs. And I admire the fact that she has spoken publicly about the fact that she and her husband have an open marriage. Monogamy is [...]
Also posted in Culture Goes Pop, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Relationships, Sex Miscellany 28 Comments
We Don’t Need No Education?
Sex education is severely lacking in this country. We know this. But it’s not just sexual knowledge that we miss out on when we have poor sex ed. We also miss out on knowledge about our bodies and how our sexual organs work and function. For men, most of their junk is right out there [...]
Cis-Privilege Bingo
I came across this Cisgender Privilege Bingo the other day, and I thought it was great. After my post the other day, I thought that this graphic was such a simple, yet effective way to demonstrate all of the ways that we may unknowingly demonstrate cis-privilege. Click it to make it bigger. Alana also posted [...]
Also posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, SGO 1 Comment
Engaged in Monogamy