To all the kick ass, beautiful, fierce femmes…

Sinclair Sexsmith posted this on his blog, and I had to repost it here. It made me cry. Sob, actually. This is Ivan E. Coyote speaking at this year’s Speak Up!

I want to thank Ivan for his words, because it’s true. We do often feel invisible and unnoticed. And it’s also true that we think YOU are beautiful.

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  1. Pixie82No Gravatar
    Posted April 15, 2010 at 8:04 am | Permalink

    Thank you so so much for posting thing. The feeling invisible as a someone who is queer and also femme is something I struggle with a lot sometimes. There were so many things said that really hit and and brought me to tears too.

  2. Vanilla KinksNo Gravatar
    Posted April 15, 2010 at 10:38 am | Permalink

    I loved this, but I told you that on Twitter!

    I’ve watched it so many times, and posted it to Facebook for some of my queer, femme friends to see.

    Thanks for sharing this, Brit.

  3. KateNo Gravatar
    Posted April 15, 2010 at 11:23 am | Permalink

    Oh. My. God.


  4. BlowJoyNo Gravatar
    Posted April 15, 2010 at 3:48 pm | Permalink

    Le sigh. :)

  5. alanaNo Gravatar
    Posted April 15, 2010 at 7:45 pm | Permalink

    This was so great! I don’t recommend watching it while trying to put on makeup though. lol

  6. AvivaNo Gravatar
    Posted April 16, 2010 at 12:16 am | Permalink

    This is amazing. Thank you so much for posting this.

  7. EveNo Gravatar
    Posted April 16, 2010 at 11:07 pm | Permalink

    I finally got around to watching this. I love it! Thanks.

  8. GrayNo Gravatar
    Posted April 17, 2010 at 12:39 pm | Permalink

    Wow. That was an amazing video, thank you for pointing that out.

  9. GadflyNo Gravatar
    Posted April 18, 2010 at 6:55 am | Permalink

    ROFL :D

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