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Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Tag Archives: The Redneck
(Not) Taking A Hint
Holly over at The Pervocracy has developed a game of sorts to play on OkCupid that demonstrates the subtlety of rape culture. The game goes like this: Get A Guy To Stop Talking To You Game! Here’s how you play: -Have an OkCupid account with a reasonably appealing picture and profile, identifying yourself as a [...]
Haunting Me
Tonight I had very vivid dreams about being raped or sexually assaulted. In the dream, I somehow knew it was a dream, yet I couldn’t make myself wake up. In one of the dreams, Chris Colfer, who plays the gay kid on Glee, came up behind me in a crowded bar, blindfolded me, and choked [...]
Confession
I came home drunk tonight. Too drunk. I tried to make myself food, but made too much noise. My mom woke up. I tell my mom everything. But I’d never told her about my rape. I knew I would someday, but I wanted to do it on my own time. But I’d ran into him [...]
One Year: The Story of My Rape
January 17th was one year since I was raped. I wrote a prelude to my story, yet never wrote the full text. Now seems like the perfect time to close this chapter of my story. This year, on January 17, I was on a plane to see Profligacy. On January 15, I ran into The [...]
My Story of Rape: Prelude
I’ve mentioned the fact that I was raped this past January, but I’ve never discussed the details or told the story. A huge part of healing from and moving beyond trauma involves telling the story of your trauma, in detail. This may be done in a therapy session, in a group session, or on your [...]
Victim Blaming
I was talking with someone from high school that actually used to be a very good friends. We hung out all the time, and I took his virginity our senior year. We were talking about stuff and I mentioned having a rough few months, as was he. He asked if I knew of any therapists [...]
Triggered
Most of the time, I don’t think about my rape. The majority of the time it doesn’t affect me one way or another. Every now and then, something will trigger me a little bit, but for the most part, I’ve coped with it fairly well. I still have the occasional nightmare. About a month ago [...]
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