Category Archives: SGO

You Say “Dyke” Like It’s A Bad Thing

As you know, I got my hair cut the other day. I really, really fucking love it. My mother saw the pictures and told me that my hair looked “dykey” and “butch.” I cried. When I sat down to think about why I had that reaction, there were so many different levels to this statement [...]
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Stay Classy, NY Post

From a piece entitled, “Vivien ‘Lay,’ scarlet woman:*” Two-time Oscar winner Viven Leigh, the iconic Scarlett O’Hara in “Gone With The Wind,” was a hot mess off-screen — a slutty bisexual who battled mental illness for most of her adult life, an explosive new biography claims. So what have we learned today, class? Bisexuality is [...]
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Afraid of Men

This postcard from this week’s Sunday Secrets on Postsecret reminded me very much of my ex-girlfriend. That isn’t to say that she didn’t love me. Or that she still doesn’t. It doesn’t invalidate our relationship, or take anything away from the connection that we had. And still have. However, sometimes I wondered if she gravitated [...]
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Soul Mates

I saw the girl that I consider to be the love of my life for the first time in 3 years the other night. We had stopped talking after a falling out, and recently got back in touch. Me moving back to Boston allowed us to see each other. It was amazing. It was like [...]
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Trans Health PSAs

Buck Angel, a trans male porn star, has released some awesome PSAs concerning trans health. The first one is his “Public Cervix Announcement,” and is geared towards transmen: This is the newest one, and is directed at transwomen. It stars the lovely Drew DeVeaux, who is one of my favorite queer porn performers (and happens [...]
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“Children should be allowed to express themselves in whatever way they wish without anybody judging them.”

I’m not the biggest fan of Angelina Jolie. I liked her a lot earlier in her career, but since she’s gone all “Mother Teresa,” I’ve found her to be irritating and a little pretentious. However, recently, she’s earned major points with me with her statements regarding the way her daughter Shiloh dresses. The press has [...]
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Accessorizing

You know what’s fucking horseshit? Treating people differently based on race, gender, sexual orientation, ability, or anything else. Treating people as “less than” because of something about who they are. And Teen Vogue has done just that by asking “Is a gay best friend the new must-have accessory?” The must-have items for her fashionista classmates [...]
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I’m Here, I’m Queer

“Can I ask you a question?” “Um, sure.” I just met you half an hour ago. What could you possibly have to say to me? “Are you a lesbian?” “No. I’m queer.” “There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.” No shit. Thanks for your approval/tolerance/reassurance! Then I got a text from someone else in the room. [...]
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Adventures in Packing, Or, Product Review: Mr. Limpy

I’ve wanted a packing cock for a while now. I love gender fuckery in all its forms, and have always loved the thought of wearing my very feminine clothing with a cock packed underneath it. So, when PinkCherry.com gave me the chance to review a Mr. Limpy, I was psyched. Adventures in Packing: Day 1 [...]
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The Most Amazing Speech in the History of TV Speeches

Mike O’Malley has done a surprisingly amazing job playing the father of Kurt, the gay character on Glee. He’s supportive and wonderful, even though he doesn’t quite understand him. They get some of the most touching scenes on the show. But this scene, from this week’s Gaga episode? Had me sobbing. More of this on [...]
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