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On Being in Queer Spaces

In a similar vein as my post two days ago, and related to my post from National Coming Out Day, I’ve been struggling a bit with something else lately. It’s no secret that I identify as a queer woman. I feel like the queer community is where I belong, and where I fit in. However, [...]
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On PDA and Sexual Orientation

I’ve written before about the guilt that I experience over my heterosexual privilege. It’s something that I find myself thinking about a lot, especially when I’m in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. And so it’s something that I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. Jesus and I are pretty affectionate with each [...]
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In and Out

I was out of town and missed posting for National Coming Out Day yesterday, but I wanted to post something anyway, whether it was late or not. I thought that this would be a good time to address a question that ASM asked me at the Calendar Party. She said, “You often mention that you [...]
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I’m a huge fan of Project Runway. Mondo is by far my favorite designer on the show. He’s quirky and he plays with color and pattern, which is something I love (which you’ve probably noticed, if you’ve ever seen anything I wear!). He wears fucking fantastic things, and is so fabulous that I almost can’t [...]
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Um, no. Surely I can’t be the only one that is completely rubbed the wrong way by the title of this book?
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You Say “Dyke” Like It’s A Bad Thing

As you know, I got my hair cut the other day. I really, really fucking love it. My mother saw the pictures and told me that my hair looked “dykey” and “butch.” I cried. When I sat down to think about why I had that reaction, there were so many different levels to this statement [...]
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Stay Classy, NY Post

From a piece entitled, “Vivien ‘Lay,’ scarlet woman:*” Two-time Oscar winner Viven Leigh, the iconic Scarlett O’Hara in “Gone With The Wind,” was a hot mess off-screen — a slutty bisexual who battled mental illness for most of her adult life, an explosive new biography claims. So what have we learned today, class? Bisexuality is [...]
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Afraid of Men

This postcard from this week’s Sunday Secrets on Postsecret reminded me very much of my ex-girlfriend. That isn’t to say that she didn’t love me. Or that she still doesn’t. It doesn’t invalidate our relationship, or take anything away from the connection that we had. And still have. However, sometimes I wondered if she gravitated [...]
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Soul Mates

I saw the girl that I consider to be the love of my life for the first time in 3 years the other night. We had stopped talking after a falling out, and recently got back in touch. Me moving back to Boston allowed us to see each other. It was amazing. It was like [...]
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Trans Health PSAs

Buck Angel, a trans male porn star, has released some awesome PSAs concerning trans health. The first one is his “Public Cervix Announcement,” and is geared towards transmen: This is the newest one, and is directed at transwomen. It stars the lovely Drew DeVeaux, who is one of my favorite queer porn performers (and happens [...]
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