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Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Category Archives: Caterwauling About The Patriarchy
Numbers
I’ve gained a healthy 20 pounds since moving to Boston 7 months ago, putting me at around 120 pounds. It’s the most I’ve ever weighed, though I know I’m still very thin. And generally, I like the weight on myself. I feel like I look better and healthier and fuller. And I tend to prefer [...]
Also posted in Soul Searching, Standards of Beauty 8 Comments
Guest Post: S&M and Abuse
While I’m busy working and unpacking and setting up my new apartment (Jesus and I are officially cohabitating!), I’ll leave you with a guest post from Molls. Molls recently moved to Holland with her husband (wow, that’s weird to say. Husband is something I never thought I’d associate with Molls) and is unemployed for the [...]
Also posted in BDSM, Culture Goes Pop, Rape Culture, Sexuality, With A Little Help From My Friends 3 Comments
Your Daily Dose of Rage
I’ve had my issues with Jezebel for some time now. The quality of their posting as been in a massive state of decline for quite awhile now, their unwillingness to allow themselves to be labeled a “feminist” site despite expressing explicitly feminist views is infuriating, and oftentimes there is a lack of race consciousness combined [...]
Also posted in Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Rape Culture 2 Comments
Intense
I saw this commercial for the first time the other day, and it bothers me on several levels. We have the man defining his “manhood” or “masculinity” based on his sexual prowess. He’s “The Man” because he’s good in bed and can give her orgasms (most likely through PIV sex, obvi). Yes, it’s great to [...]
Dead On
While I’m off working and having a life boyfriend, I wanted to at least share something superawesome with you. Courtesy of Holly over at Pervocracy (that I’m hoping to finally be able to meet for drinks once she’s done having mono!), The People You Meet When You Write About Rape: Mr. What About The Men [...]
Also posted in Rape Culture Comments closed
Karma’s A Bitch, Bitch
I just found out that my rapist was stabbed this weekend and is in the ICU. SHOCKINGLY, I can’t find it ANYWHERE in me to feel even remotely bad about it or care what happens to him. Fuck you very much. Karma’s a bitch.
Any Sex A Woman Doesn’t Want to Have is Rape
Normally I love Dan Savage. Granted, he can be a little transphobic and biphobic at times, but no one is perfect. And generally, he’s awesome. But then, there’s stuff like this. In case you can’t read the text, here it is: Any Sex a Woman Doesn’t Want to Have is Rape Let me cut to [...]
Also posted in Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Rape Culture 22 Comments
What Can Men Do?
This is a fantastic post that I’ve reposted from Terry Brock. It always warms my cold, black heart to know that there ARE good men out there that are fighting this fight with us. To those men, thank you. After spending an hour fuming about the latest news regarding the failure of Prosecutor Stuart Dunnings [...]
Also posted in Rape Culture 1 Comment
Gross
I found these on Allposters.com while looking for artwork for my apartment. Rape culture: (This one makes me absolutely sick.) (This is what’s known as “rape”). (Obvi.) Women are only after one thing: (That’s how you want to end up with an engagement ring! Because you wore him down and drove him nuts until he [...]
Also posted in Rape Culture 16 Comments
Being female in the city. Or in the suburbs. Or in the country. Or, you know, in the world in general.