Category Archives: Sexuality

Stay Classy, NY Post

From a piece entitled, “Vivien ‘Lay,’ scarlet woman:*” Two-time Oscar winner Viven Leigh, the iconic Scarlett O’Hara in “Gone With The Wind,” was a hot mess off-screen — a slutty bisexual who battled mental illness for most of her adult life, an explosive new biography claims. So what have we learned today, class? Bisexuality is [...]
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Afraid of Men

This postcard from this week’s Sunday Secrets on Postsecret reminded me very much of my ex-girlfriend. That isn’t to say that she didn’t love me. Or that she still doesn’t. It doesn’t invalidate our relationship, or take anything away from the connection that we had. And still have. However, sometimes I wondered if she gravitated [...]
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You know what’s fucking horseshit? Treating people differently based on race, gender, sexual orientation, ability, or anything else. Treating people as “less than” because of something about who they are. And Teen Vogue has done just that by asking “Is a gay best friend the new must-have accessory?” The must-have items for her fashionista classmates [...]
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I’m Here, I’m Queer

“Can I ask you a question?” “Um, sure.” I just met you half an hour ago. What could you possibly have to say to me? “Are you a lesbian?” “No. I’m queer.” “There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.” No shit. Thanks for your approval/tolerance/reassurance! Then I got a text from someone else in the room. [...]
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There are all kinds of euphemisms for things. Especially sexual things. Because we’ve made sex this dirty, taboo thing, we need words for things that don’t evoke those embarrassing images and reactions! “Vajajay.” “Down there.” “Member.” “Love making.” But apparently, the numerous euphemisms that already exist for sexytime were not good enough. Glamour had to [...]
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Adventures in Packing, Or, Product Review: Mr. Limpy

I’ve wanted a packing cock for a while now. I love gender fuckery in all its forms, and have always loved the thought of wearing my very feminine clothing with a cock packed underneath it. So, when gave me the chance to review a Mr. Limpy, I was psyched. Adventures in Packing: Day 1 [...]
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The Most Amazing Speech in the History of TV Speeches

Mike O’Malley has done a surprisingly amazing job playing the father of Kurt, the gay character on Glee. He’s supportive and wonderful, even though he doesn’t quite understand him. They get some of the most touching scenes on the show. But this scene, from this week’s Gaga episode? Had me sobbing. More of this on [...]
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“Bad Pussy,” Or WTF, Liberator?

UPDATED 3:00 PM, 5/27. Scroll to the bottom for updates. What the fuck, Liberator? No, seriously, what the fuck? A blog post entitled “Brutal Honesty from Guys: Bad Pussy” was published on the Liberator blog. And yes, it’s just as bad as it sounds. The post sets the scene for you as such: You read [...]
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Differences in Submission

I’m sexually submissive with 95% of the people that I’m with. I’m NEVER sexually dominant, but with some partners there’s a much more equal feeling to the sex we have. However, the majority of the time, I’m submissive in some regard, even it’s something as simple as having my wrists held down. But just as [...]
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Book Club: The Purity Myth

This month, we tackled The Purity Myth: How America’s Obsession With Virginity is Hurting Young Women by Jessica Valenti. Overall, I really enjoyed this book, and I think Valenti makes some fantastic points. Granted, I agree with her point of view already, so convincing me that the virginity movement is not necessarily a positive thing [...]
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