Monthly Archives: December 2009

Product Review: Tantus Zing

When Naughty and Discreet sent me the Tantus Zing, I was fully prepared not to like it, for several reasons. First of all, the ridges scared the hell out of me. Who the hell puts ridges on a butt plug and why did they think it was a good idea? Second of all, I haven’t [...]
Posted in Anal Toy, Population Control and Orgasmic Artillery, Product Reviews | Tagged | 1 Comment

Levels of Submission

About a year ago, I had opened my blog up to questions from readers. A friend of mine, Deiter, sent me the 9 Levels of Submission and asked where I felt I fell on the spectrum. Here was my answer at the time: I am somewhere between number 4 and number 5, the “true submissive [...]
Posted in BDSM, Relationships, Submission | Tagged | 13 Comments

What’s In Your Box?: Britni

This is the first installment of What’s In Your Box?, the feature that allows you all to show off your toy collections! I’m posting mine first, and then Master’s, and then each week I’ll feature another blogger’s collection. I’ll be posting them in the order in which I got them, and I’m definitely still looking [...]
Posted in Population Control and Orgasmic Artillery, What's In Your Box? | 11 Comments

Aftercare, Part III: The Exceptions

This is the third part in a series on aftercare. Part I is here. Part II is here. I had initially intended on only writing two posts on aftercare– one on the basics and one on how aftercare can create traumatic bonding that bonds the participants to each other. However, something that I had intended [...]
Posted in BDSM, Sex Miscellany, With A Little Help From My Friends | 2 Comments

Master of His Own Domain: Prince Albert

Prince Albert is the name of a piercing that circles through the end of the penis entering just under the head and exiting out the urethra. This is one of 6 piercings that I have and is by far my favorite. If I had to remove all but one this is certainly the ring I [...]
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On Blog Content

I’ve noticed around the blogosphere lately that several sex bloggers have been reconsidering the content of their blogs. Both Wilhelmina Wang and Little Minx have expressed a desire to branch out into content that goes beyond “smut.” I told both of them that I thought it would be a fantastic idea. I discovered something really interesting [...]
Posted in With A Little Help From My Friends | 8 Comments

Do They CARE It’s Christmas?

EDIT: Champagne and Benzedrine has posted a response to my post on his blog. Go check it out. I heard the song “Do They Know It’s Christmas” on the radio the other day, seeing that it’s the holiday season, so every single holiday song ever recorded needs to be dragged out, dusted off, and played [...]
Posted in Culture Goes Pop, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching | 15 Comments

Lady Gaga Changes Her Tune

Earlier this week, I posted a clip in which Lady Gaga makes some very important and valid points about double standards that are very much in line with feminist ideals, yet balks at actually adopting the label “feminist.” Amy sent me an article in which she changes her tune regarding the label “feminist.” From the [...]
Posted in Awesomeness, Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, Culture Goes Pop, Lady Gaga | 7 Comments


When you think of someone that is “feminine,” many images, often of women, come to mind. Descriptors like “soft,” “gentle,” and “delicate” are often used. “Muscular” is not. “Muscular” is a “masculine” term. “Masculine,” as we all know, is a term often associated with men. If men are masculine, and muscles are a masculine feature, [...]
Posted in Eye Candy, Standards of Beauty | 9 Comments

What If You Don’t Enjoy Sex?

A reader sent me an email a while back, and I’ve been meaning to post it here and open it up to you guys. I sent her a reply, but would love to know if you guys have any ideas or suggestions for her! I’ve been reading your blog for some time now. I find [...]
Posted in Sex Miscellany, With A Little Help From My Friends | 11 Comments
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