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Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Category Archives: BDSM
I Like It Rough.
I’m capable of having and enjoying vanilla sex. I used to do it much more in the past than I do now, though. As I get older and explore my sexuality more, it’s become clear that some degree of roughness is necessary. I require at least a little bit of assertion, dominance, and force from [...]
Also posted in Sexuality, Submission 1 Comment
Miscommunication
I don’t remember how the conversation started, but The Scientist said something that prompted my head to snap up and say, “I didn’t know you were kinky.” Because our sex had been far from kinky at this point, and I was planning on asking him to be rougher with me the next time we were [...]
Something. Anything. Nothing.
I brush my teeth too hard, intentionally drawing blood. I gag myself while brushing my tongue. Anything to feel something. Something to feel anything. The water in the shower is way too hot. It scalds me, turning my skin bright red. I don’t turn it down. Anything to feel something. Something to feel anything. I [...]
Also posted in Depression, Self Medication, Soul Searching 3 Comments
Yes, I’m Sure
“You’re sure I can be rough?” “Oh my god, YES. I’ve told you, like, 9 million times that I want you to be!” And with that, he slapped me across the face pushed my head down on his cock, and choked me with it. I liked it very much. “I can smell your whore cunt [...]
Safewords
I don’t normally link to articles or posts on this blog without commentary of my own, but I think this post, The Annotated Safeword, on the Yes Means Yes Blog is great. Please go read it. While it talks a lot about BDSM, it talks about consent in general, too, and how safewords can be [...]
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Regression
When I get angry or upset or sad or stressed, I regress. I whine. I become very stubborn and nothing can make me feel better. No matter what is said or offered, I want none of it and I continue to pout, regardless of what the other person is trying to do to comfort me. [...]
Craving
My submissive tendencies have waned these past few months. I haven’t really felt the tinge to really give myself to someone. However, my bedroom submission never really goes away. I enjoy rough sex much more than vanilla sex. I want and crave kink in some form, even if it’s being lightly choked or pinned down [...]
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Compatibility
“I like bitchy women that know how to shut up and take it in bed.” I’m pretty sure I qualify. Yes, I think we’ll get along just fine.
Pig
If there’s one thing that I still have to get used to with Dude, it’s being called a “pig” in bed. I’ve been called everything under the sun in the bedroom: “slut,” “whore,” “cunt,” you name it. However, I’ve never been called a pig. Generally, I’m cool with whatever you want to throw at me [...]
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