Monthly Archives: May 2009

Tangled Up In You

“The dawn is breaking, A light shining through. You’re barely waking, And I’m tangled up in you.” -Howie Day, Collide There is nothing I love more than waking up in someone’s arms, tangled up in each other’s bodies, a mess of appendages flailed about haphazardly, yet fitting perfectly together. I love not knowing where their [...]
Posted in Eye Candy, I Want To Go To There, Sex Miscellany | 5 Comments

Smack My Bitch Up

I’m craving a good, hard, proper spanking. It’s been a really long time since I’ve had one, and when I’m feeling down I like the physical pain even more than I normally do. I think for me, it’s a way for the feelings and emotions I’m feeling internally to be physically manifested and felt. That’s [...]
Posted in BDSM, Sex Miscellany, Submission | 6 Comments


“I’m becoming transfixedwith nature and my part in it,which I believe just signifiesI’m finally waking up… I am trying to evolve,I’m just trying to evolve.”-Ani DiFranco, Evolve I want to write. I have so much going on in my head lately, and I’ve been doing a ton of introspection. I’ve been examining and re-examining myself, the [...]
Posted in Soul Searching | 14 Comments

My Fingers Are Crossed

No matter what else is going on in my life, or anyone else’s right now, this is the most important thing that will happen today. My fingers are crossed tightly. I am hoping against hope that California will join the ranks of the five (yes?) other states that currently allow same-sex marriage. I’m hoping against [...]
Posted in SGO | 12 Comments

I Love You Just The Way You Are

I knew that posting this was going to get more than one comment regarding the “fat and ugly” comment made by my brother. I was prepared for more than one person to comment and say, “Hey, calling a girl fat as an insult isn’t okay.” And I agree. I knew in posting it that I was [...]
Posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Standards of Beauty | 18 Comments

Victim Blaming

I was talking with someone from high school that actually used to be a very good friends. We hung out all the time, and I took his virginity our senior year. We were talking about stuff and I mentioned having a rough few months, as was he. He asked if I knew of any therapists [...]
Posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Rape Culture, With A Little Help From My Friends | Tagged | 19 Comments

"I Just Believe in Me"

Bisexuality among female celebrities seems to be a recent trend. There’s been Lady GaGa, Megan Fox, and Fergie, all coming out very, very recently. But as always, Pink does it in a classy, awesome way. She says, “I’m not embarrassed about being bisexual. This is who I am. Love is pure and I try to [...]
Posted in Culture Goes Pop, Lady Gaga, SGO | 8 Comments

On Blogging Communities: What You Guys Had To Say

I got a lot of response and feedback to my post on blogging and communities of bloggers. You guys had a lot to say, and it was all very thought provoking. I’d like to repost some of the comments I received, because sometimes you can say things better than I can, and because comments like [...]
Posted in Awesomeness, With A Little Help From My Friends | 8 Comments

On Tolerance and Acceptance: A Guest Blog

Continuing my trend of being featured or guest posting this week, I’ve got a piece posted over at Lori’s blog. It’s about tolerance and acceptance. Go read it. Or don’t, whatever. I never liked you, anyway.
Posted in Awesomeness, Soul Searching, With A Little Help From My Friends | 3 Comments

Daisy of Suck

How did Daisy de la Hoya get her own dating show? She’s pretty much the most boring person ever, and I wish that her interviews weren’t so scripted. You can tell she’s reciting lines (much like Tila Tequila) and it doesn’t feel genuine at all. Most reality dating shows are fake, but at least you [...]
Posted in Culture Goes Pop | 7 Comments
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