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Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Category Archives: Rape Culture
Necessity
In a complete stroke of luck, Jesus happened to be staying in a town on the night I was assaulted. In an even larger stroke of luck, his phone was turned on. He immediately hitched a ride to a bus station and headed back into the city. He made it back only 6 hours after [...]
An Update
Those of you that follow me on Twitter are already aware of the events of Monday night. For those of you that are not aware, I’m not going to beat around the bush. I was raped on Monday night. I refuse to get into the details, because they’re not important. Rehashing them won’t change what [...]
Being female in the city. Or in the suburbs. Or in the country. Or, you know, in the world in general.
I wonder when I’ll get to stop worrying that the guy who stared at me the entire train ride who then gets off at the same stop as me and is now walking behind me is following me. I’m thinking probably never.
Also posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy 2 Comments
Guest Post: S&M and Abuse
While I’m busy working and unpacking and setting up my new apartment (Jesus and I are officially cohabitating!), I’ll leave you with a guest post from Molls. Molls recently moved to Holland with her husband (wow, that’s weird to say. Husband is something I never thought I’d associate with Molls) and is unemployed for the [...]
Also posted in BDSM, Culture Goes Pop, Sexuality, With A Little Help From My Friends 4 Comments
Your Daily Dose of Rage
I’ve had my issues with Jezebel for some time now. The quality of their posting as been in a massive state of decline for quite awhile now, their unwillingness to allow themselves to be labeled a “feminist” site despite expressing explicitly feminist views is infuriating, and oftentimes there is a lack of race consciousness combined [...]
Dead On
While I’m off working and having a life boyfriend, I wanted to at least share something superawesome with you. Courtesy of Holly over at Pervocracy (that I’m hoping to finally be able to meet for drinks once she’s done having mono!), The People You Meet When You Write About Rape: Mr. What About The Men [...]
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Karma’s A Bitch, Bitch
I just found out that my rapist was stabbed this weekend and is in the ICU. SHOCKINGLY, I can’t find it ANYWHERE in me to feel even remotely bad about it or care what happens to him. Fuck you very much. Karma’s a bitch.
Any Sex A Woman Doesn’t Want to Have is Rape
Normally I love Dan Savage. Granted, he can be a little transphobic and biphobic at times, but no one is perfect. And generally, he’s awesome. But then, there’s stuff like this. In case you can’t read the text, here it is: Any Sex a Woman Doesn’t Want to Have is Rape Let me cut to [...]
Also posted in Griping and Kvetching and Bitching 22 Comments
What Can Men Do?
This is a fantastic post that I’ve reposted from Terry Brock. It always warms my cold, black heart to know that there ARE good men out there that are fighting this fight with us. To those men, thank you. After spending an hour fuming about the latest news regarding the failure of Prosecutor Stuart Dunnings [...]
Posted in Rape Culture 1 Comment
Just What I Needed