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No Daddy Issues For Me

I got a message from a 51-year-old man the other day. One with no picture, mind you. It said, simply, “What’s the last thing that surprised you?” And so, I responded just as simply. “That a 51-year-old man thought it would be appropriate to message a 25-year-old woman. ” Look, I’m not trying to date [...]
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I received this succint and to the point email today: I hate you. Well, now that we’ve established the level of your emotional maturity (non-existent) and your true feelings for me (fantastic), I think we’re done here, no? Angry, hurt, and bitter doesn’t look good on anyone, darling. *CEFAD: Crap Email From A Dude, a [...]
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When I get angry or upset or sad or stressed, I regress. I whine. I become very stubborn and nothing can make me feel better. No matter what is said or offered, I want none of it and I continue to pout, regardless of what the other person is trying to do to comfort me. [...]
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Master of His Own Domain– Finally!

Profligacy has started his own blog. Plz to read it. He’s really a fantastic writer. And you’ll get to know him outside of his relationship with me. I know y’all will love him. He’s a pretty cool guy.
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Schoolyard Crush

As I alluded to in this post, Dude and I flirt like two kids on a playground. I push him down, but only because he pulled my hair first. It’s our way of letting each other know we have a crush on each other. I had the same kind of banter, teasing, and chops-busting with [...]
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Differences in Submission

I’m sexually submissive with 95% of the people that I’m with. I’m NEVER sexually dominant, but with some partners there’s a much more equal feeling to the sex we have. However, the majority of the time, I’m submissive in some regard, even it’s something as simple as having my wrists held down. But just as [...]
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It’s official: I am allergic to latex. And it took me entirely too long to figure it out. You see, it’s been a long time since I’ve really used condoms on a regular basis. The Bruiser and I didn’t use them (our condom broke the first time we fucked; we got tested). Nor did Profligacy [...]
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Product Review: Tantus Dipper

Fascinations asked if I would like to review the new Tantus plug, the Dipper, and I happily agreed. The picture scared me a bit, but I knew it was made out of silicone, so I figured that the ribs would not be as harsh as they appeared. I was incorrect. The first thing I noticed [...]
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I Thought I Knew Him

I thought I knew him, but I guess I didn’t. I thought he knew me, but I guess he didn’t. That’s what hurts the most. The break-up was my decision, but I never wanted it to end like this. I thought he was better than that. I thought wrong.
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On Self-Worth and Submission

Isabel posted something the other day about struggling with her self-worth. Something about it got me thinking about the fact that, when I really think about it, many of the submissives whose blogs I read struggle with their self-esteem and self-worth. I also find that when I’m depressed or feeling really poorly about myself, I [...]
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