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Karma’s A Bitch, Bitch

I just found out that my rapist was stabbed this weekend and is in the ICU. SHOCKINGLY, I can’t find it ANYWHERE in me to feel even remotely bad about it or care what happens to him. Fuck you very much. Karma’s a bitch.
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(Not) Taking A Hint

Holly over at The Pervocracy has developed a game of sorts to play on OkCupid that demonstrates the subtlety of rape culture. The game goes like this: Get A Guy To Stop Talking To You Game! Here’s how you play: -Have an OkCupid account with a reasonably appealing picture and profile, identifying yourself as a [...]
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Haunting Me

Tonight I had very vivid dreams about being raped or sexually assaulted. In the dream, I somehow knew it was a dream, yet I couldn’t make myself wake up. In one of the dreams, Chris Colfer, who plays the gay kid on Glee, came up behind me in a crowded bar, blindfolded me, and choked [...]
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I Got Fucked

I got fucked by a man, though I hesitate to call him that. He was more like a boy. A boy that fucked me often, in both the literal and figurative sense. The former, of course, being much more enjoyable than the latter, as it usually is. In fact, the only reason that I kept [...]
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I came home drunk tonight. Too drunk. I tried to make myself food, but made too much noise. My mom woke up. I tell my mom everything. But I’d never told her about my rape. I knew I would someday, but I wanted to do it on my own time. But I’d ran into him [...]
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One Year: The Story of My Rape

January 17th was one year since I was raped. I wrote a prelude to my story, yet never wrote the full text. Now seems like the perfect time to close this chapter of my story. This year, on January 17, I was on a plane to see Profligacy. On January 15, I ran into The [...]
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My Story of Rape: Prelude

I’ve mentioned the fact that I was raped this past January, but I’ve never discussed the details or told the story. A huge part of healing from and moving beyond trauma involves telling the story of your trauma, in detail. This may be done in a therapy session, in a group session, or on your [...]
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A Confession

It wasn’t his. It was his.
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Victim Blaming

I was talking with someone from high school that actually used to be a very good friends. We hung out all the time, and I took his virginity our senior year. We were talking about stuff and I mentioned having a rough few months, as was he. He asked if I knew of any therapists [...]
Posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Rape Culture, With A Little Help From My Friends | Tagged | 19 Comments


Most of the time, I don’t think about my rape. The majority of the time it doesn’t affect me one way or another. Every now and then, something will trigger me a little bit, but for the most part, I’ve coped with it fairly well. I still have the occasional nightmare. About a month ago [...]
Posted in It Felt Like A Kiss, Psychobabble, Rape Culture, Soul Searching | Also tagged | 6 Comments
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