Category Archives: Caterwauling About The Patriarchy

Being female in the city. Or in the suburbs. Or in the country. Or, you know, in the world in general.

I wonder when I’ll get to stop worrying that the guy who stared at me the entire train ride who then gets off at the same stop as me and is now walking behind me is following me. I’m thinking probably never.
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I’ve gained a healthy 20 pounds since moving to Boston 7 months ago, putting me at around 120 pounds. It’s the most I’ve ever weighed, though I know I’m still very thin. And generally, I like the weight on myself. I feel like I look better and healthier and fuller. And I tend to prefer [...]
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Guest Post: S&M and Abuse

While I’m busy working and unpacking and setting up my new apartment (Jesus and I are officially cohabitating!), I’ll leave you with a guest post from Molls. Molls recently moved to Holland with her husband (wow, that’s weird to say. Husband is something I never thought I’d associate with Molls) and is unemployed for the [...]
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Your Daily Dose of Rage

I’ve had my issues with Jezebel for some time now. The quality of their posting as been in a massive state of decline for quite awhile now, their unwillingness to allow themselves to be labeled a “feminist” site despite expressing explicitly feminist views is infuriating, and oftentimes there is a lack of race consciousness combined [...]
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I saw this commercial for the first time the other day, and it bothers me on several levels. We have the man defining his “manhood” or “masculinity” based on his sexual prowess. He’s “The Man” because he’s good in bed and can give her orgasms (most likely through PIV sex, obvi). Yes, it’s great to [...]
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Dead On

While I’m off working and having a life boyfriend, I wanted to at least share something superawesome with you. Courtesy of Holly over at Pervocracy (that I’m hoping to finally be able to meet for drinks once she’s done having mono!), The People You Meet When You Write About Rape: Mr. What About The Men [...]
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Karma’s A Bitch, Bitch

I just found out that my rapist was stabbed this weekend and is in the ICU. SHOCKINGLY, I can’t find it ANYWHERE in me to feel even remotely bad about it or care what happens to him. Fuck you very much. Karma’s a bitch.
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Any Sex A Woman Doesn’t Want to Have is Rape

Normally I love Dan Savage. Granted, he can be a little transphobic and biphobic at times, but no one is perfect. And generally, he’s awesome. But then, there’s stuff like this. In case you can’t read the text, here it is: Any Sex a Woman Doesn’t Want to Have is Rape Let me cut to [...]
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What Can Men Do?

This is a fantastic post that I’ve reposted from Terry Brock. It always warms my cold, black heart to know that there ARE good men out there that are fighting this fight with us. To those men, thank you. After spending an hour fuming about the latest news regarding the failure of Prosecutor Stuart Dunnings [...]
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I found these on while looking for artwork for my apartment. Rape culture: (This one makes me absolutely sick.) (This is what’s known as “rape”). (Obvi.) Women are only after one thing: (That’s how you want to end up with an engagement ring! Because you wore him down and drove him nuts until he [...]
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