“You’re sure I can be rough?”
“Oh my god, YES. I’ve told you, like, 9 million times that I want you to be!”
And with that, he slapped me across the face pushed my head down on his cock, and choked me with it. I liked it very much.
“I can smell your whore cunt from here.”
That’s because I was dripping wet. When the belt came out, first whipping me on my back and ass, then choking me while I blew him, I was a goner.
After he’d shot his load in my face, he said, “You weren’t kidding when you said I could degrade the shit out of you, huh?”
“Hahaha. Nope! It gets me off.”
“Good. That was fun.”
Indeed. Let’s do it again?
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Glad to hear you’re having fun and finding what you like!
Oh, I love the picture with this post… I think we need to get a basket… and a leash… and a cute… kitty… *looks over at Annabelle with pleading look in his puppy-eyes*
- Arthur
So you drink do drugs post picks of yourself and video review sex toys. You claim to enjoy rough play. And you don’t think you send the wrong message?
Why would any of those things “send the wrong message”? What on earth is “the wrong message”? Here’s an idea: buy a dictionary and look up the word “consent”.
Your first sentence is hugely ignorant.
However, I’m going to hone in on the “claim to enjoy rough play” part of your post. Saying Brit only “claims” to enjoy rough play sounds like you’re saying she’s lying, and that she doesn’t actually enjoy it. Is this your intent?
So you comment on a blog post, suggesting that posting about enjoying consensual rough sex has something to do with being attacked in a nightclub.
You don’t think you’re a victim-blaming piece of shit?
I’m going to say to you what I say to all victim-blaming assholes:
Go. Drink. Antifreeze.
Maybe it’ll wash the taste of misogynist bullshit out of your mouth.
Enjoying rough sex is not any sort of excuse or justification for sexual assault. Rough sex requires a lot of communaicatin about boundaries, trust, and sensitivity, and comparing it to the kind of assault that Britni dealt with is completely unjustified and inappropriate. And you can’t tell what someone likes to do in the bedroom by looking at them, necessarily.
Okay, with my logical reply over, I’d kindly request that you drink a tall glas of Die In A Fire, followed with an antifreeze chaser.
Choke on a dick, asshole.
Hope you have a genie to make that come true…
Loved this post, but now he’s turned it into something completely else with his comment. I wonder if he is just plain ignorant, or if this is some very bad-taste trolling effort to drive traffic. Either way he needs to get a clue.
WHAT THE FUCK!? I don’t care if you do drugs, sleep around, dance naked in the streets, wear boob tubes and daisy dukes, enjoy being consensually slapped/choked/pissed on/beaten/degraded — NONE of these things give anyone the right to touch you against your will, NONE of these things invite rape or assault, and NONE of these send the “wrong message,” which I assume you take to mean “Please assault me.”
Once you’ve stated your boundaries about where you’d like to be touched or how you’d like to be spoken to– every violation of those boundaries is assault. No matter how drunk you are, how many pictures you post of yourself online, how much makeup you’re wearing, or how you like to get fucked or whether you stick plastic toys up your genitals or not.
Go choke on cyanide you victim blaming piece of shit.
It’d do the rest of the world a favor.
Mature.
Aaand beaten to it by Outspoken Clitic.
Also, Britni – hotttt. Hooray negotiation and hot sex!
Hey, the situation. That guy in the bar the other night who assaulted her probably hasn’t READ her blog or SEEN her photos, so what’s your point? Do you have some studies that show that people who enjoy rough sex are more likely to be raped? Or bloggers? If so, please share them with the group. Otherwise, your unsubstantiated claim is just made up crap. That you made up. Congratulations! You have a dark and icky mental life!
Also, I’m going to agree with Melissa McEwan here and say, “And just like how people who speak Arabic are better translators of Arabic than people who don’t, people who have immersed themselves in the critical theories of gender are better translators of what is and is not sexism. Identifying and defining sexism is not–as “sexism is a matter of opinion” suggests–a speculative chore. There is an existing framework for recognizing and characterizing expressed sexism—and those who have made it their business to become fluent in it are the closest thing to objective experts as exist in any discipline.”
Talking out of his butt and then expecting people who have actually read and studied this stuff just to roll over and go, “OMG HE’S RIGHT!!!!!” is really sad.
Does he have some studies to back that up? Does his argument take place in an existing framework of actual ideas and facts, not crap he just made up? No? Then his opinion is actually not valid. Like if he tried to tell me that the play Hamlet was about when his dog died when he was twelve. That’s not a valid opinion. All FEELINGS may be valid, but all opinions distinctly are not.
Yummy.
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