Category Archives: BDSM

Pig

If there’s one thing that I still have to get used to with Dude, it’s being called a “pig” in bed. I’ve been called everything under the sun in the bedroom: “slut,” “whore,” “cunt,” you name it. However, I’ve never been called a pig. Generally, I’m cool with whatever you want to throw at me [...]
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Differences in Submission

I’m sexually submissive with 95% of the people that I’m with. I’m NEVER sexually dominant, but with some partners there’s a much more equal feeling to the sex we have. However, the majority of the time, I’m submissive in some regard, even it’s something as simple as having my wrists held down. But just as [...]
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Kinksterwear

I’m very conflicted about these shirts from Kinksterwear. On the one hand, I know that BDSM is consensual and all that stuff. And I’ve expressed the sentiments displayed on these shirts to partners before. However, the idea of wearing them on a t-shirt, unless it’s at some sort of kink event, makes me uncomfortable. If [...]
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On Self-Worth and Submission

Isabel posted something the other day about struggling with her self-worth. Something about it got me thinking about the fact that, when I really think about it, many of the submissives whose blogs I read struggle with their self-esteem and self-worth. I also find that when I’m depressed or feeling really poorly about myself, I [...]
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Taken

Profligacy and I have been looking for a collar for everyday wear for a while now. We wanted something that I could wear all the time, but everything we found was either too obviously a collar, or just “not me.” We wanted this because a) I can’t wear my collar 24/7, yet it’s nice to [...]
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All of Me

I have the best Master/Daddy/boyfriend in the world. I’m not an easy person to be with, and I know that. I suffer from depression, and it comes and goes often. I actually think it’s more like dysthymia, which is worse, because that means it never really goes away. And that makes being with me really, [...]
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What’s In Your Box?: Deiter

Today’s toy box actually comes from a friend of mine, Deiter, from the local scene down here in South Florida. I am a dominant kinky sadist. My main areas of interest are shibari, flogging, caning, insertables, impact, and pressure points. While I prefer to play heavy, I can be very sensual. I am a rope [...]
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Master of His Own Domain: Electro Stimulation

Several years ago I was reading about electro-stimulation and sex. I was curious so I bought a system. After my last review I had a question about electro-stimulation so I thought I would write about the VERY LITTLE I do know about it. After thinking about the idea a long time I finally broke down [...]
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Kink

I’ve always known I was a little kinky. However, I never really thought that I was more than a *little* kinky. Just the “usual:” light spanking, some bondage, choking. You know, the usual. Then, as I read more and more about BDSM, I realized that I was probably more than just a *little* kinky. Maybe [...]
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More Normal Than You Think

“If loving you makes a slave of me, then I’ll spend my whole life in chains.”-Sophie B. Hawkins One of the things that I always say when people inquire about the dynamics of my relationship with Profligacy is, “I think people picture this scary Dom with a flogger in His hand 24/7, but it’s really [...]
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