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Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Category Archives: SGO
On PDA and Sexual Orientation
I’ve written before about the guilt that I experience over my heterosexual privilege. It’s something that I find myself thinking about a lot, especially when I’m in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex. And so it’s something that I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. Jesus and I are pretty affectionate with each [...]
In and Out
I was out of town and missed posting for National Coming Out Day yesterday, but I wanted to post something anyway, whether it was late or not. I thought that this would be a good time to address a question that ASM asked me at the Calendar Party. She said, “You often mention that you [...]
Also posted in Sexuality, Soul Searching 15 Comments
Positivity
I’m a huge fan of Project Runway. Mondo is by far my favorite designer on the show. He’s quirky and he plays with color and pattern, which is something I love (which you’ve probably noticed, if you’ve ever seen anything I wear!). He wears fucking fantastic things, and is so fabulous that I almost can’t [...]
Also posted in Culture Goes Pop 3 Comments
Um, no. Surely I can’t be the only one that is completely rubbed the wrong way by the title of this book?
Also posted in Sex Miscellany, Sexuality 8 Comments
You Say “Dyke” Like It’s A Bad Thing
As you know, I got my hair cut the other day. I really, really fucking love it. My mother saw the pictures and told me that my hair looked “dykey” and “butch.” I cried. When I sat down to think about why I had that reaction, there were so many different levels to this statement [...]
Also posted in Parental Control, Sexuality, Soul Searching, Standards of Beauty 10 Comments
Stay Classy, NY Post
From a piece entitled, “Vivien ‘Lay,’ scarlet woman:*” Two-time Oscar winner Viven Leigh, the iconic Scarlett O’Hara in “Gone With The Wind,” was a hot mess off-screen — a slutty bisexual who battled mental illness for most of her adult life, an explosive new biography claims. So what have we learned today, class? Bisexuality is [...]
Also posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, Culture Goes Pop, Sexuality 23 Comments
Afraid of Men
This postcard from this week’s Sunday Secrets on Postsecret reminded me very much of my ex-girlfriend. That isn’t to say that she didn’t love me. Or that she still doesn’t. It doesn’t invalidate our relationship, or take anything away from the connection that we had. And still have. However, sometimes I wondered if she gravitated [...]
Soul Mates
I saw the girl that I consider to be the love of my life for the first time in 3 years the other night. We had stopped talking after a falling out, and recently got back in touch. Me moving back to Boston allowed us to see each other. It was amazing. It was like [...]
Trans Health PSAs
Buck Angel, a trans male porn star, has released some awesome PSAs concerning trans health. The first one is his “Public Cervix Announcement,” and is geared towards transmen: This is the newest one, and is directed at transwomen. It stars the lovely Drew DeVeaux, who is one of my favorite queer porn performers (and happens [...]
Also posted in Public Service Announcement 5 Comments
On Being in Queer Spaces