Monthly Archives: February 2010

Hostage Situation

The trailer for the new Jennifer Aniston/Gerard Butler movie The Bounty Hunter makes me angry, and really, really uncomfortable (trailer starts at about 00:27): You know what’s hysterical? Picking up your ex-girlfriend and throwing her in a trunk, and hanging up on her when she calls you from said trunk crying because you “know her [...]
Posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, Culture Goes Pop, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, It Felt Like A Kiss, Rape Culture | 18 Comments

Product Review: Pink Water

I am really, really picky when it comes to lubricants. In fact, there are very few water-based lubricants that I like, and therefore, I’m always looking for a good one. Pink Water, luckily, I enjoy very much. And considering I hardly ever like lube, that’s saying a lot. While I would prefer just to use [...]
Posted in Lubricants and Gels, Population Control and Orgasmic Artillery, Product Reviews | Tagged | 17 Comments

Master of His Own Domain: Mojo vs. Nojo

I have felt rather uninspired about my job as of late.  My work has always been a rather large part of ‘who’ I considered myself to be, perhaps too much so.  Twenty-two years with the same company, I had risen through the ranks and taken on some remarkable positions that I am quite proud of.  [...]
Posted in Soul Searching | Tagged | 3 Comments

I’m Getting Around

I’ve started contributing to Fascinations as a sex ed writer, and have my first two pieces up. I’ve written a piece on safer oral sex, and one on talking to your partner about getting tested. Go check them out!
Posted in Population Control and Orgasmic Artillery | Tagged | 3 Comments

Sexual Violence and Rape On Postsecret

I love Postsecret, because as heartbreaking as it can be, it’s such a good reminder that you are not alone in your struggles and your pain and your experiences. And sometimes, that’s enough.
Posted in Rape Culture | 4 Comments

On Privilege

ETA: Please read Nadia West’s response to the privilege discussion, because it’s fantastic, and far more articulate than I could ever be. If you are unfamiliar with the concept of privilege, you can read about white privilege, male privilege, and heterosexual privilege. Champagne and Benzedrine wrote a lovely little post about privilege, and how it’s [...]
Posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Rape Culture, SGO | 51 Comments

I’ve Moved!

As you can see, I’ve moved to my own domain, with the help of the fantastic Epiphora. It’s still a work in progress, as I’ve yet to find a template that I like, and I still don’t have my blogroll back up my blogroll is only partially back up. If you think you should be [...]
Posted in Diarrhea of the Mind | Tagged | 5 Comments

We Don’t Need No Education?

Sex education is severely lacking in this country. We know this. But it’s not just sexual knowledge that we miss out on when we have poor sex ed. We also miss out on knowledge about our bodies and how our sexual organs work and function. For men, most of their junk is right out there [...]
Posted in Caterwauling About The Patriarchy, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Sex Miscellany, Sexuality, Standards of Beauty | 31 Comments

Hung Like A 9-Year-Old

In fantastically coincidental timing, the day after I post about how we shouldn’t shame men for having a small penis, Hailey Glassman does one of the most disgusting, classless, unnecessary things that anyone could do. She continually talks about how small Jon Gosselin’s penis is. And she doesn’t just mention it in passing in the [...]
Posted in Culture Goes Pop, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Sex Miscellany, Standards of Beauty | 7 Comments

Dramatic Eclectic

I took a quiz about my personal decorating style. Here were my results: Britni, you are a DRAMATIC ECLECTIC You have wide-ranging interests and influences, and so appreciate a mix of styles, periods, and objects. You would never dream of using matching suite of furniture or could stand a home that seemed cookie-cutter. You are [...]
Posted in Diarrhea of the Mind | 6 Comments
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