Monthly Archives: January 2010

Master of His Own Domain: The Fury

Cockrings are a dime a dozen these days. Repackaged O-rings in plastic wrappers hang as impulse items at the sex toy store checkout and awkward, flimsy faux leather 9-speed snap models hang in the aisles. Cockrings come in many different materials: rubber, jelly, leather, silicone, and metal. Some have snaps so they are easily removed [...]
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Round Up: On Rape

There have been some truly wonderful posts regarding rape, rape culture, Schrodinger’s rapist, and such on various blogs lately. I’d like to feature some of them here. I referred to Epiphora’s post “I write about sex. That is not an invitation,” and Figleaf’s post “Ever Notice How Blame The Victim Narratives Reinforce The Myth of [...]
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Pleasurists #62

via MUSE Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days. For updates and information follow our RSS Feed and Twitter. Did you miss Pleasurists #61? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #63? Be sure to read our submission [...]
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I Loved A Girl Once

I loved a girl once. Her name began with the letter ‘L.’ She had red hair and green eyes. She was obsessed with Hello Kitty and always wore eye makeup with glitter in it. She was the first girl I had ever met that wore 4 inch heels everywhere. Maybe that’s why I decided I [...]
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Book Club: A People’s History of the United States

In a case of really odd timing, Howard Zinn, the author of the book we are discussing this month, A People’s History of the United States, died yesterday at the age of 87. You can read a nice, short obit to him here. You can also find the full text of A People’s History online [...]
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A Different Defense of Schrodinger’s Rapist

It’s no secret that I have some readers that disagree with the assertion that “all men are potential rapists.” I’ve explained my point in every way that I know how, but somehow, I still feel as though I’m failing to really articulate it, and not just because not everyone is agreeing with me. It’s a [...]
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If It Makes You Happy

I would like to commend Armani Exchange, because the homepage of their website looks like this right now (click to embiggen): ZOMG. A Valentine’s Day campaign that isn’t heteronormative! Sure, there’s a heterosexual couple, but, look! There’s a gay couple and a lesbian couple, too! Because, guess what? Love comes in many different varieties, and [...]
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e[lust] #6

Look! I’m one of the top three! Yay! HNT Courtesy of Having My Cake And Eating It Too Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. [...]
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Rape Culture Around The Blogosphere: LISTEN

There’s been some really great posts regarding rape, rape culture, and harassment around the blogosphere lately, and I’d like to take the time to highlight some of them. Figleaf wrote a FANTASTIC post called “Ever Notice How Blame the Victim Narratives Reinforce the Myth of Male Weakness?” He says: Once again, the problem with blaming [...]
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Three is Company, Four is a Crowd

Britni and I have sex with other people. We both agree that we want to be together and that it is unreasonable to expect to only have sex with each other the rest of our lives. The relationship of sex and emotion is a complicated one. We want only each other for the emotional bond [...]
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