Tag Archives: The Redneck

I Want More

I want someone to see me for who I am. I want someone to look and me and see more than just a conquest that they want to fuck. I’m sick of being the girl that you fuck for a year but don’t speak to in public. I’m sick of being the girl that you [...]
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Hurting Heart

I went home with him but resisted having sex with him. I couldn’t, I told him. It was too painful for me the next day. He stroked my hair and kissed my forehead. “I know, baby.” I knew this person, the one I was in love with, cared about me, even if he couldn’t say [...]
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Looking Evil In The Eye

The Redneck is not supposed to be allowed into the bar. I hadn’t seen him in months. He walked in and my stomach dropped. I moved to the other end of the bar, farther way from where he was sitting. I was shaking. I went into the bathroom and hyperventilated for a few minutes and [...]
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Karma’s A Bitch

The Redneck lost his car and now is losing his house. He is banned from our local bar to due an outstanding tab of $80 that has been sitting for 3 months, combined with owing the bartender $300 of her personal money. He is moving into a trailer. But not a nice trailer. One of [...]
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Dealing with the aftermath of my sexual assault has been enlightening. And difficult. But I say enlightening because I work with battered women, and many of these women were sexually assaulted, molested, raped, or sexually abused by people that they knew and trusted. And while I wish more than anything that I had not experienced [...]
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Quite Possibly The Worst Night Ever

The Redneck called me on Saturday night to come hang out. I was drunk because I had been drinking all day, and therefore thought it was a good idea to do so. I got dropped off there. It was the worst idea that I have ever had. I didn’t realize how drunk HE was when [...]
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Another One Bites The Dust

Without going into too much detail, after The Redneck had asked me not to hook up with anyone else, and after he was the one calling me 5 times a day and asking me to come over every day, started getting weird. Referred to me as his “buddy.” Told me that if I started having [...]
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I have never dated “tough” guys. I have never dated guys that got into fights. And what this all translates to is the fact that I have never dated a guy that stood up and defended me. I do not take sexual harassment very well. If I am in a bar and some guy makes [...]
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Tuesday Night: He says, “We are both newly out of relationships and I don’t know that I am ready to jump into another one quite yet. If you feel yourself developing feelings for me, try to push them down. We’re hanging out and having fun, and that is enough for now.” Wednesday Night: He says, [...]
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Music To My Ears

“I’m going to shoot all over that pretty little face of yours. Okay?” Yes, very okay, thankyouverymuch.
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