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Britni TheVadgeWig
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Category Archives: Submission
Taken
Profligacy and I have been looking for a collar for everyday wear for a while now. We wanted something that I could wear all the time, but everything we found was either too obviously a collar, or just “not me.” We wanted this because a) I can’t wear my collar 24/7, yet it’s nice to [...]
All of Me
I have the best Master/Daddy/boyfriend in the world. I’m not an easy person to be with, and I know that. I suffer from depression, and it comes and goes often. I actually think it’s more like dysthymia, which is worse, because that means it never really goes away. And that makes being with me really, [...]
Kink
I’ve always known I was a little kinky. However, I never really thought that I was more than a *little* kinky. Just the “usual:” light spanking, some bondage, choking. You know, the usual. Then, as I read more and more about BDSM, I realized that I was probably more than just a *little* kinky. Maybe [...]
BDSM Meme: Britni
I found this on Kaya’s blog, and I liked it. I’m not really big on memes, but I thought this one was good, especially since I have so many non-BDSM readers. 1. Your role? Submissive slave, cum slut. 2. Current relationship? Owned and collared to Profligacy. 3. Your favorite type of play? Bondage of any [...]
Master’s Pet
Master and I are not into pup-play or pony-play, or any kind of animal role play. However, our relationship has a very large element of protection to it. I desire a Dom that will be comforting, protective, and who will take care of me, as I mentioned in my post on ageplay. Profligacy really enjoys [...]
Levels of Submission
About a year ago, I had opened my blog up to questions from readers. A friend of mine, Deiter, sent me the 9 Levels of Submission and asked where I felt I fell on the spectrum. Here was my answer at the time: I am somewhere between number 4 and number 5, the “true submissive [...]
Aftercare, Part II: Traumatic Bonding
This is Part II in a three-part series on aftercare. Part I can be found here. Part III is here. Before I begin this post, I want to make it very clear that BDSM is not abuse, and the two are quite different. For clarification on what does and does not constitute abuse in BDSM [...]
Also posted in BDSM, It Felt Like A Kiss, Relationships 5 Comments
Constricted
Most of the time, I love being in a 24/7 D/s relationship. In fact, I’ll say that a good 97% of the time I love it. It fulfills me, it fits me, and it’s what I want. However, being submissive is not always easy. You have to swallow (pun intended) a lot of shit when [...]
Also posted in BDSM, Griping and Kvetching and Bitching, Relationships Tagged Profligacy 10 Comments
Daddy’s Little Girl
I tweeted the other day that Master and I were doing a lot more Daddy/daughter role play lately, and that I liked it a great deal. Predictably, there were quite a few responses saying that it was disturbing, gross, or that people simply didn’t get the appeal of it. Before I get into the appeal [...]
On Self-Worth and Submission