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I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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Category Archives: Rape Culture
Apparently, This Needs To Be Said Again
JUST BECAUSE I WRITE ABOUT SEX DOES NOT MEAN I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT I WANT TO TELL YOU INSANELY PRIVATE DETAILS ABOUT MY SEX LIFE. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU CAN SEXUALLY HARASS ME ON THE INTERNET. AND IT DEFINITELY DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU CAN [...]
Also posted in Griping and Kvetching and Bitching 4 Comments
Anti-Rape Campaigns Done Right
Men Can Stop Rape has released a new anti-rape campaign, and it’s awesome. Not only does it feature both a gay couple and a minority couple among the posters, but instead of telling women not to drink so much/stay out late/wear something slutty, it simply focuses on stopping rape. It’s the sentiment of “the only [...]
Also posted in Awesomeness 8 Comments
(Not) Taking A Hint
Holly over at The Pervocracy has developed a game of sorts to play on OkCupid that demonstrates the subtlety of rape culture. The game goes like this: Get A Guy To Stop Talking To You Game! Here’s how you play: -Have an OkCupid account with a reasonably appealing picture and profile, identifying yourself as a [...]
Super Powers
I didn’t publish this comment, because it would have continued a discussion that had long ended and the guy that wrote it had already spewed victim-blaming rhetoric all over the comments of another post, but I wanted to post it here because it might just be The Best Comment Ever regarding how to avoid being [...]
Also posted in Awesomeness 15 Comments
Drunk Girl
I stopped regularly watching The Real World a few seasons ago. I always give the new season a chance, but a couple years ago, I stopped feeling like I was watching my peers, and started feeling like I was watching people I used to know in college. In short, I felt older than the people [...]
Also posted in Culture Goes Pop, Self Medication 4 Comments
Apparently, If a Woman Watches Porn, She is Going to Get Raped
Mary Ann Layden is a women’s studies professor. Therefore, it would be safe to assume that Mary Ann Layden is a feminist. However, Mary Ann Layden is also a victim-blamer and a slut-shamer, which are things NOT associated with feminism. But you know what else Mary Ann Layden is? A fucking idiot. “The more pornography [...]
Posted in Rape Culture 15 Comments
Talking to Catcallers About Street Harassment
I found this very interesting video via Holla Back NYC. A woman approaches a group of men that were catcalling at her on the street to ask why they do it and records the exchange on her phone. What I found most interesting about it is that the catcallers seemed to understand why what they [...]
Posted in Rape Culture 1 Comment
Sexual Assault Anthem*: “Too Close”
The song “Too Close” by Next (it’s from the late ’90s) is very rapey. In fact, it reminds me of something that I’ve experienced. No wonder he thought it was okay! He must have listened to this song before going out! Let’s look at some of the relevant lyrics, shall we? I wonder if she [...]
Also posted in Culture Goes Pop 12 Comments
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