Category Archives: Standards of Beauty

The Beauty Myth

On Twitter the other day, Champagne and Benzedrine and I were disagreeing about something (shocking, I know). He tweeted the following (which will now be referred to as The Most Epic Tweet Ever Tweeted™): Not only do I disagree with this statement, I believe that body image and self-esteem are the main way that the patriarchy [...]
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To all the kick ass, beautiful, fierce femmes…

Sinclair Sexsmith posted this on his blog, and I had to repost it here. It made me cry. Sob, actually. This is Ivan E. Coyote speaking at this year’s Speak Up! I want to thank Ivan for his words, because it’s true. We do often feel invisible and unnoticed. And it’s also true that we think [...]
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Million Dollar Smile

When you ask someone what one of the first things they notice about someone is, they’ll often say, “Their smile.” When you ask someone what physical qualities they look for in a partner, a “nice smile” is often at the top of the list. But what makes a smile “nice?” In our society, we equate [...]
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Vulva Beautiful

Vulvas are beautiful. All of them. The lovely labia. The mons, with hair or without. The little clitoral button that rears it’s head.  We’re so often shown these genitals that are hairless, uniform in nature, and wholly unrealistic. But your vulva does not have to look like the ones in Playboy to be beautiful. In [...]
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Hair Down There

I’ve noticed lately what seems to be a shift away from the shaved/waxed completely bare trend that dominated pubic grooming for the last several years. I know that beauty standards come and go, and things come in and out of style. But it seems like there has been a backlash, especially on the part of [...]
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Bearded Ladies

In our society, we expect our women to be hairless. They should shave their legs, their underarms, their pubic hair. Some women eschew that because they want to. But some women can’t help the hair that grows on their body. Whether it’s PCOS or hirsutism, or something they keep by choice, excess hair doesn’t make [...]
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Of Scars

One of my biggest pet peeves with breast cancer awareness campaigns such as “Save the Tatas” is the emphasis on the tits, and not the women attached to them. Of course, anything done to raise awareness and money for breast cancer is a great thing, I just wish we could focus more on the woman, [...]
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We Don’t Need No Education?

Sex education is severely lacking in this country. We know this. But it’s not just sexual knowledge that we miss out on when we have poor sex ed. We also miss out on knowledge about our bodies and how our sexual organs work and function. For men, most of their junk is right out there [...]
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Hung Like A 9-Year-Old

In fantastically coincidental timing, the day after I post about how we shouldn’t shame men for having a small penis, Hailey Glassman does one of the most disgusting, classless, unnecessary things that anyone could do. She continually talks about how small Jon Gosselin’s penis is. And she doesn’t just mention it in passing in the [...]
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Size Matters (Except That It Doesn’t. And Shouldn’t)

I came across this post on a forum recently (lovely grammar and spelling are hers): “SMALL PENIS… are SOOO much better than large penis’….. or so think some morons online HA!!!! I was browsing online trying to find out why my [boyfriend's] dick is tiny but his dads was deliciously large, and tumbled upon a site [...]
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