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Dead On

While I’m off working and having a life boyfriend, I wanted to at least share something superawesome with you. Courtesy of Holly over at Pervocracy (that I’m hoping to finally be able to meet for drinks once she’s done having mono!), The People You Meet When You Write About Rape: Mr. What About The Men [...]
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Make the Call

The other night, I was woken up at about 1:30 AM by a couple fighting with each other. It was loud and angry and I listened for a few minutes for sounds of violence before drifting back to sleep. At about 3:00 AM, I was awakened by the same couple, still fighting. The male was [...]
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Karma’s A Bitch, Bitch

I just found out that my rapist was stabbed this weekend and is in the ICU. SHOCKINGLY, I can’t find it ANYWHERE in me to feel even remotely bad about it or care what happens to him. Fuck you very much. Karma’s a bitch.
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My Kinky Self

I’ve sucked at posting lately, and I’ve also not talked much about BDSM in a while. So when Rayne asked me to guest post on her blog defining my kinky self, I thought it would be a good opportunity to both get myself writing and thinking about BDSM again. And so, I’ve defined my kinky [...]
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How My Day Started…

My alarm didn’t go off, so I was late and had to take a cab. My cab driver hit a chick on a bike, so I had to take a different cab halfway there. My new cabbie was listening to Rush Limbough, who I listened to read the headline “Gay Porn Star Accused of Killing [...]
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As you can see, my blogging inspiration has been severely lacking lately. Besides not really having much to write about, I’m never home. I come home to sleep, or just run in the door to shower and change and run back out. I’ve been working a lot, and spending a lot of time with Jesus, [...]
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Wardrobe Malfunction: Dotty

I took this picture at work on a Saturday morning. Saturdays are my favorite, as I’m the only senior staff on site and the clients tend to be fairly chill. My office is in the basement, and I get to sit down there alone without interruption and just do my thing. This is a VERY [...]
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May The Force Be With You

And we’re back with another dating site message for the ages. …., it says we need to match at least 60 % or the message I send you will appear with a filter warning. Warned you are then, ha-ha. Good morning, how are you ? Up late I presume, or up rather early you could [...]
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In and Out

I was out of town and missed posting for National Coming Out Day yesterday, but I wanted to post something anyway, whether it was late or not. I thought that this would be a good time to address a question that ASM asked me at the Calendar Party. She said, “You often mention that you [...]
Posted in SGO, Sexuality, Soul Searching | 14 Comments

Sweet Nothings

Jesus: “I want to have a blowout dinner for my birthday. Will you be my date?” Me: “Fuck no.” Jesus: “Will you be my bitch?” Me: “Sure.” Jesus: “Will you be my cumslut?” Me: “Absolutely.” I like that he knows me already.
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