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All of Me

I have the best Master/Daddy/boyfriend in the world. I’m not an easy person to be with, and I know that. I suffer from depression, and it comes and goes often. I actually think it’s more like dysthymia, which is worse, because that means it never really goes away. And that makes being with me really, [...]
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Master of His Own Domain: Leather Ball Stretchers

Ball stretchers come in a plethora of materials and designs. They are made of materials including neoprene, leather and metal, to name a few. I did a previous piece on ball weights that are a type of ball stretcher. Leather stretchers, as pictured, are usually about 7 inches in length with varied [...]
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I’ve always known I was a little kinky. However, I never really thought that I was more than a *little* kinky. Just the “usual:” light spanking, some bondage, choking. You know, the usual. Then, as I read more and more about BDSM, I realized that I was probably more than just a *little* kinky. Maybe [...]
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Master of His Own Domain: The Fury

Cockrings are a dime a dozen these days. Repackaged O-rings in plastic wrappers hang as impulse items at the sex toy store checkout and awkward, flimsy faux leather 9-speed snap models hang in the aisles. Cockrings come in many different materials: rubber, jelly, leather, silicone, and metal. Some have snaps so they [...]
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Here I am, casually sipping my wine, chillin’ in a hallway, hoping that no one walks by. Or am I hoping that someone does walk by? I’ll let you decide. HHNT!
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Enneagram: Profligacy and Britni

In a comment to my Meme post Welcome to Chicago, Jillinois asked me what my Enneagram was, guessing I was an eight. I have done this 3 times now and am freaked out that the top two numbers have been exactly the same. I even went back and swapped some answers to see [...]
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Master of His Own Domain: Progasm

In my constant search for better prostate play toys I have thus far had one measure by which all other toys have been compared. This would be the Aneros Progasm. It happened to be my first toy purchased specifically for the prostate, one I almost did not make. It is made of [...]
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Wardrobe Malfunction: Nashville!

I know you all are dying to see some of the outfits I wore while in Nashville with Profligacy last week, so here’s a glimpse (click to pic to embiggen). I don’t feel like listing off everything I’m wearing. The first two pictures on the left are the same outfit, but I wanted you to be [...]
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What would happen if I wandered out of my hotel room, late at night, wearing nothing but my lingerie? Maybe you’d catch a glimpse of me through the glass. And maybe, I’d have my panties below my knees, like I did for Profligacy when He spotted me across the lobby with His camera. I guess I’ll have [...]
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More Normal Than You Think

“If loving you makes a slave of me, then I’ll spend my whole life in chains.”-Sophie B. Hawkins One of the things that I always say when people inquire about the dynamics of my relationship with Profligacy is, “I think people picture this scary Dom with a flogger in His hand 24/7, but it’s really not [...]
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  • Britni TheVadgeWig

    Photobucket Britni is the primary voice on this blog. I'm submissive and slave to my Master, Profligacy. I am His owned slut; His collared whore. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
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  • Profligacy

    Photobucket Profligacy is Master and owner of Britni. I am a gym rat, scientist and Dom, although not necessarily in that order. I delight in the intelligent and insightful diatribes of my property. When not planning trials and tribulations for Britni for my entertainment, I add to the dialogue here. If pushing boundaries, opposing opinions and D/s erotica make you uneasy, go here.
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  • Shameless Love

    "Well I'm shameless when it comes to loving you I'd do anything you want me to I'd do anything at all... I'm shameless, baby I don't have a prayer Anytime I see you standing there I go down upon my knees..."
    I have never let anything have this much control over me Cause I worked too hard to call my life my own Yes I made myself a world and it worked so perfectly But it's your world now, I can't refuse I never had so much to lose. I'm shameless."
    -Billy Joel, Shameless
  • The Inspiration(s) Behind the Name

    "I'm missus 'Oh my god, that Britney's Britni's shameless.'"
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    "Just blame it all on me, say I was shameless.
    Say I couldn't slow it down, Let alone stop it.
    And say you just hung around, 'Cuz you couldn't top it." -Ani DiFranco, Shameless
    "I'll take my clothes off and it will be shameless."
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