Packing Heat

One of the hottest images that I can think of is a woman (or a boi, butch, transman, any non-cismale) in a strap-on. There is something about the soft femininity of curves, combined with the powerful, dominant image of a cock that sets me on edge. But there’s also something about an androgynous body rocking a phallus that makes me tingle, too. I love cocks, both real and fake. I like getting fucked with cocks, I love feeling and handling cocks, and I love choking on cocks, regardless of what they’re made of and the gender of the person that it’s attached to.
The gender fuckery and the image that’s created when women, who are typically docile and submissive in our stereotypical representations of them, wear something that is so masculine and dominant in nature is out of this world. I, personally, have no desire to fuck anyone, male or female, with a strap-on. It’s way too dominant of a sex act for this little sub. However, I have several harnesses on my wishlists, because I want to own one, to wear it, to feel what it’s like to have a cock attached to me. I want to take pictures of myself in it and revel in the feeling of packing heat. [WARNING: Tons and tons of pictures in this post. There were too many good ones, and I couldn't decide which ones to use.]

This picture might be the hottest thing I’ve ever seen in my life:

The absolutely beautiful Wilhelmina Wang (as shot by Sylvanus):

I had to include myself in this, no? This is from Halloween 2005, when I “fucked like a rabbit”:

Perfection, in visual form:

All photos courtesy of Strap Ons, bendoverboyfriend, and NewRyder’s Strapon Log on Tumblr.

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  1. Jess
    Posted January 16, 2010 at 12:13 am | Permalink

    Wow, you look uber hot!

  2. Kara and Jessica
    Posted January 16, 2010 at 11:44 am | Permalink

    This is such a HOT post Britni. I loved this. Being a lesbian who has a gf that uses a strap-on with her quite regularly I love these pics. Your right about the Dominant/Submissive feeling when wearing one of these. I used one on Jess the other night and it felt a little weird. Though it is double sided so we both received pleasure out of it together. I'll try and post about it this weekend.
    Have fun…..Kara XOXOXO

    PS. I agree with the picture of the woman drinking the coffee. I might have to request this look for Jess :)

  3. Profligacy
    Posted January 16, 2010 at 12:04 pm | Permalink

    This one is very hot to me for some reason. All those feminine curves then this big cock… pretty cool

  4. Garnet Joyce
    Posted January 16, 2010 at 12:16 pm | Permalink

    LOVE women in strap-ons! Such a hot post. That pic you said is the hottest ever I get to see every Saturday @ Early to Bed. Its posted in our backroom.

    Also, you definitely don't have to fuck anyone w a harness on to enjoy the feeling. My first harness was bought solely for a photoshoot I did and the first thing I did when I opened the package was put it on and masturbate. So hot!

  5. slave b
    Posted January 16, 2010 at 4:03 pm | Permalink

    Very hot post, my faves were the one with the girl in the business suit and the one with the girl in the red checked dress lifting it up.

    Thanks for sharing!

  6. eva
    Posted January 16, 2010 at 5:10 pm | Permalink

    What a feisty blog entry, I loved all the pictures, and especially the one of you at Halloween is an instant winner.

    I disagree with cocks always being dominant things- maybe you like to look at it that way because you're a sub and it makes things more interesting for you, but I don't see the act of penetration or the penis as a dominant thing. I do see that it's being presented as such in the general media, and I guess it is to expected since we live in a patriarchy and all, but I don't agree.

    I have swapped out some of the words from an excerpt of your blog entry just for fun + to see what it would sound like:

    "There is something about the soft [masculinity] of curves, combined with the powerful, dominant image of a [pussy] that sets me on edge."

    Weird, eh? I remember reading a book called Egalia's daughters that swapped the roles about just like that; I loved it, have you read it? Anyway, thanks for all the saucy photos :)

  7. twg
    Posted January 16, 2010 at 7:27 pm | Permalink

    I noticed the one of you that you slipped in. Loved this. :)

  8. elsiewrites
    Posted January 17, 2010 at 4:22 pm | Permalink

    I couldn't agree more with you Britni! Thanks for the lovely pictures. I'm especially partial to the girl with the thigh strap, but they're all really hot!

  9. KelseyRhae
    Posted January 19, 2010 at 11:07 am | Permalink

    One of my favorite entries you've ever done. I love love love strap-ons and I want one so much. I would just walk around the house wearing it all the time. Nice job posting the leg-harness as well! That works very well for some disabled people.

  10. Giles English
    Posted January 25, 2010 at 7:52 am | Permalink

    Wow! I like coffee girl best, I think. She looks cool but normal. Perhaps her boyfriend is lying on the bed in a state of satisfaction, despite his chastity belt.

    Unless you object, I think I may borrow some of these and add speech bubbles.

  11. Giles English
    Posted January 26, 2010 at 10:17 am | Permalink

    …and I did.

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