Apparently, This Needs To Be Said Again

JUST BECAUSE I WRITE ABOUT SEX DOES NOT MEAN I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT I WANT TO TELL YOU INSANELY PRIVATE DETAILS ABOUT MY SEX LIFE. IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU CAN SEXUALLY HARASS ME ON THE INTERNET. AND IT DEFINITELY DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU CAN SEND ME UNSOLICITED NAKED PICTURES OF YOURSELF.

If I did not ask to see your penis, why on earth would you assume I wanted to see it? If I have never talked to you, why would you assume that your opening email to me should be a picture of you naked including the words “I don’t want to make assumptions about you, but…?” Assuming that some woman wants to see your penis in a picture attached to an email when she has not indicated that she does is no different than a man on the train assuming that he can expose himself to a woman. Would you expose yourself to a woman on the train? No? Then why would you expose yourself to her in an email?

It is unsolicited exposure. It is exhibitionism. It is a sex crime. It is sexual harassment. Unless I have explicitly asked for a picture of you naked, DO NOT SEND IT TO ME. Get it? Got it? GOOD.

I thought we’d been over this once, twice, three times, four times, but apparently there needed to be a fifth time.

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4 Comments

  1. EpiphoraNo Gravatar
    Posted August 11, 2010 at 9:07 pm | Permalink

    B-b-but if he sends his cock, you will send your tits. RIGHT? RIGHT?

    Vom.

  2. Another Suburban MomNo Gravatar
    Posted August 11, 2010 at 11:04 pm | Permalink

    You mean that liking sex and writing about it does not mean you want random cock shots? Rilly?

  3. macNo Gravatar
    Posted August 14, 2010 at 12:47 am | Permalink

    I have a friend who has told me about guys sending pictures of their cocks to her. This is the only reason I’m not shocked to see it here…. I have a pic of an actual rooster I sent to her, she sent a kitty cat back :-)

  4. that girlNo Gravatar
    Posted August 14, 2010 at 11:26 pm | Permalink

    the nerve of some people

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