1. Your role?
Dom, Master
2. Current relationship?
Owner and keeper of Britni, my personal whore.
3. Your favorite type of play?
Bondage, humiliation and orgasm control
4. Your most hated type of play?
Hard limits of the usual, scat, blood, animals, lack of consent, nothing illegal.
5. The most annoying habit of your owner/slave/whatever you call your SO?
Self destructive behavior, not keeping promises or following orders.
6. Your deepest fear?
Being unappreciated, taken advantage of or disrespected by someone I care about.
7. Your most memorable public experience (or what you would like to do in public)?
Most memorable public scene was most certainly the public flogging I did with Britni.
8. What gets you in the mood?
Crying, telling me to hurt you, following orders immediately.
9. Favorite method of masturbation?
Left hand and lube, pulling testicles down with the right.
10. Scariest thing you’ve seen or heard of in BDSM land?
Blood play, scarification, branding, hook hanging, no limits.
11. Number of hours you spend on Fet when you should be doing other things?
Not many. The almost religious devotion and ceremony to something that should be fun bothers me.
12. Thing that was hotter in fantasy than it was in reality?
Figging
13. Most longed-for experience?
24/7 live-in slave and mate.
14. Ouchiest toy?
I am not on the ouchy end very often but if you consider CBT I suppose extreme testicle weights would be the answer. Maintaining the level of stimulation required to offset large weights is limit setting.
15. Book or movie that every newbie has to read/see?
Erotic Bondage Handbook by Jay Wiseman
16. Thing you’d like to change about yourself?
More future oriented rather than dwelling on past decisions.
17. Thing you’re most proud of?
My kids
18. Funniest dom name you’ve ever heard?
Ones that say something rather than just a name, like Sir BeatU
19. Do your family and friends know?
Family very little, some friends do/suspect.
20. Is twenty questions too many?
Was not too bad.
I'm Britni, a snarky bitch and generally awesome person. I write about sex, love, and bullshit. If sex-positivity, discussions about BDSM and kink, queer issues, and topics that are completely inappropriate by society's standards make you uncomfortable, then this blog is not for you.
Good Vibes 
4 Comments
A wee bit off topic, but I'm curious what your enneagram # would be. I'm guessing you're an eight.
http://yourenotthebossofme-jsn.blogspot.com/2009/05/this-town-needs-enneagram.html
Jilinois,
I took the test twice with the same result.
My enneagram type was 3. Eight was a close second (78% vs 74% respectively).
Also, I was a sexual variant. I am apparently an arrogant aggressive pervert. Who would guess that!
Threes pair very well with sevens, which Brit is: "no other couple is as vivacious or gregarious as the Three/Seven couple. This is probably the highest energy combination of types"
What issue (or issues) do you take with blood? Is it something other than the obvious STD/disease/health concerns?
- Mimi
Joseph,
To have enough blood to play with I assume someone has to bleed. I don't see the point.
I love period sex and find the copious amounts of blood that are involved with that very hot. I don't consider that blood play because it is a natural bodily function.
I also love play piercing. The small amount of blood produced during this is erotic and smearing a bit is hot but was not the sole intent of the scene.
The blood play I am thinking about is cutting or draining a vein for the sole purpose of acquiring enough blood to mark or play in. It seems that carried too far it could be dangerous for the bleeder. I don't desire to see my blood. It makes me uncomfortable and I do not even give blood for the same reason. This is just not my fetish. I would be interested to hear from someone who enjoys it and why however.