Isn’t It Ironic?

Bartender and I sat down recently to have a talk about some things, as there is a lot going on in his life right now and some of those things put unwanted strain on our relationship. Nothing bad, just stuff that we needed to hash out and get off of our chests.

One of my complaints was the lack of sex in our relationship. I know that he works late and I know that we don’t get to spend a lot of time together, and I definitely take that into consideration. But we’ve only been dating about four months and I’m totally still in the honeymoon phase where I want him inside of me all the time. Plus, I’m a horny little shit. For me though, its less the lack of actual sex that bothers me, but what feels like a lack of desire for sex on his part. For me, sex makes me feel closer to and more connected with my partner and when the sex dwindles it makes me feel like the feelings are dwindling, too.

He turned to me in disbelief and said, “All my life, women have called me a dog, a pig, someone who wants nothing more than sex, and incapable of commitment. I finally meet someone that I care about for more than sex, and her complaint is that we don’t have enough sex? Un-fucking-believable.”

Funny how that works, isn’t it? Guess he didn’t know who he was dealing with.

But he did reassure me that even if he stopped liking me completely, he would always want to fuck me. So, that’s good to know.