You know it’s not going to go well when his first message to you is this:
I hope you won’t take this wrong, but I LOVE bisexual hipsters (not for the reason you think), and you are a beautiful example. if you do take offense, just call me old and I’ll slink away…
Now, I’m already put off, but I’d love to hear his explanation to this, so I poke the hive.
I would love to hear you elaborate on that comment with an answer that doesn’t involve some disgusting heterosexual male fantasy of girls hooking up with each other.
His answer was just as… gross? annoying? as I expected.
as a guy, if a bisexual woman or lesbian hangs out with you, has sex with you, etc, it validates you as a person, not just as a man, and it feels better.
So glad that I could be a potential ego boost for you, dude! Or, you know, NOT. I’m not gonna go out with you just to stroke your fragile male ego.
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Validates you as a person? I don’t get how that’s supposed to make even a little bit of sense. Fragile ego indeed! Wow.
Hahahahaha. It all comes back to THE MENZ. Ur beautiful becuz u make dem feel gooooodz.
it validates you as a man? so having sex with a women who is either not attracted to your gender or not exclusively attracted to your gender makes you a better man? validates your manhood because you’re so sexy and manly and awesome that even ‘teh gays’ will fuck you?
::BARF::
I hate men like that.
I don’t get it. I’m trying the opposite on for size. Bisexual male hipster fucks me. I feel validated as a person.
Uh. Nope.
Oh my god. Thinking it quietly to yourself is tragic enough – not understanding that it is not one of the thoughts we share is pathetic. Ugh.
So the straight women he may (or may not) go out with don’t do the same for him? It has to be a bi/les woman?
Does that actually work for him?
*sigh*
peace…
I wholeheartedly agree with the above comments, and will add that you have a knack for finding the best pictures to illustrate your posts with.
It’s fun to watch people tie the rope you throw them around their necks, no?
I personally am always really validated when someone who isn’t attracted to me has sex with me anyway. SO MUCH. Yeah.