Comments on: Out of My System http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Mon, 10 Jan 2011 16:32:33 +0000 hourly 1 By: Another Suburban Mom http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-18078 Another Suburban Mom Sat, 08 Jan 2011 23:53:53 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-18078 I am glad that you re so happy with Jesus! I am glad that you re so happy with Jesus!

]]> By: Britni TheVadgeWig http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17969 Britni TheVadgeWig Thu, 06 Jan 2011 16:52:01 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17969 Similar to what Twg said above, if the only thing keeping me from cheating is not being in the same room as him, then I should reevaluate my relationship with Jesus. And chances are that if I would cheat with him, I'd probably cheat with someone else eventually, too. I think the "why put yourself in that position" logic is BS, because whether it's that position or another, everyone will be tested at some point in every relationship. Similar to what Twg said above, if the only thing keeping me from cheating is not being in the same room as him, then I should reevaluate my relationship with Jesus. And chances are that if I would cheat with him, I’d probably cheat with someone else eventually, too. I think the “why put yourself in that position” logic is BS, because whether it’s that position or another, everyone will be tested at some point in every relationship.

]]> By: twg http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17963 twg Thu, 06 Jan 2011 16:06:02 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17963 If you do not test yourself, how do you know that you can withstand temptation? I'd rather an S/O hang out with a "will they or won't they" ex than not sleep with someone merely by virtue of avoidance. If you do not test yourself, how do you know that you can withstand temptation? I’d rather an S/O hang out with a “will they or won’t they” ex than not sleep with someone merely by virtue of avoidance.

]]> By: April http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17960 April Thu, 06 Jan 2011 15:14:38 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17960 I have a Bruiser type guy in my life, although he didn't treat me like shit. He was more my kryptonite as I was his. We both would cheat on whoever we were with, with each other. After I met Joe, I went a long time without seeing him because I didn't trust myself around him. Then one day he was in my area for work and we met up for lunch. All of those irresistible feelings were gone and it was such a relief. Like you, I had no desire for him. I only wanted Joe. It's so nice to be completely in love with one person. I have a Bruiser type guy in my life, although he didn’t treat me like shit. He was more my kryptonite as I was his. We both would cheat on whoever we were with, with each other. After I met Joe, I went a long time without seeing him because I didn’t trust myself around him. Then one day he was in my area for work and we met up for lunch. All of those irresistible feelings were gone and it was such a relief. Like you, I had no desire for him. I only wanted Joe.

It’s so nice to be completely in love with one person.

]]> By: Frida http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17931 Frida Wed, 05 Jan 2011 22:35:04 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17931 Why did you even let yourself end up in a room alone with him? :-s I mean, I understand you're 'friendly', but at the same time, as you said, why even risk it if you're not sure what might happen? Please don't take that as a knock, it's just a genuine question - I agree mostly with the other three first commenters! Why did you even let yourself end up in a room alone with him? :-s

I mean, I understand you’re ‘friendly’, but at the same time, as you said, why even risk it if you’re not sure what might happen?

Please don’t take that as a knock, it’s just a genuine question – I agree mostly with the other three first commenters!

]]> By: Molls http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17926 Molls Wed, 05 Jan 2011 16:29:02 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17926 About damn time. About damn time.

]]> By: twg http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17924 twg Wed, 05 Jan 2011 14:34:23 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17924 Agree on both counts. I likewise didn't even see my ex when he was in town last week, and it felt great. It's nice to be past it all. Agree on both counts.

I likewise didn’t even see my ex when he was in town last week, and it felt great. It’s nice to be past it all.

]]> By: Janie http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17921 Janie Wed, 05 Jan 2011 10:25:10 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17921 Yay! Getting to that place feels so good! I'm happy for you, and I'm guessing Jesus is pretty happy too! xoxox Yay! Getting to that place feels so good! I’m happy for you, and I’m guessing Jesus is pretty happy too!

xoxox

]]> By: alana http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17910 alana Wed, 05 Jan 2011 01:19:42 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17910 That sound you hear is a collective sigh of relief from your readership. lol But in all seriousness, glad to hear you're happy and that that chapter of your life is behind you. That sound you hear is a collective sigh of relief from your readership. lol

But in all seriousness, glad to hear you’re happy and that that chapter of your life is behind you.

]]> By: Skij http://britisshameless.com/2011/01/at-last-closure/comment-page-1/#comment-17909 Skij Wed, 05 Jan 2011 00:51:34 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=4114#comment-17909 Happy to hear it. :) Happy to hear it. :)

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