Comments on: PSA: On Seduction, Part Deux

By: Holmes - SASM

Holmes - SASM — Thu, 16 Sep 2010 00:27:23 +0000

SO true. I had a man just yesterday chatting me up and he said, “I’m clean. Have good hygiene. Take good care of myself. And I’m hung.” And I was like, “Whoa, whoa, whoa, dude. First of all, everything but your penis size should be a fucking given. Secondly, leave something to be discovered. Shut up already.” – Well, I didn’t say shut up, but I did delete him off my chat and said I had to go wash my hair. Same diff, right?

By: Ghouldilocks

Ghouldilocks — Sun, 12 Sep 2010 07:55:34 +0000

This reminds me of this message I got from an old guy who kept repeating that he was “rich, fit and well-hung” in oder to seduce me. Pretty tacky (though quite hilarious).

By: Elodie

Elodie — Sat, 11 Sep 2010 05:47:25 +0000

Any man who can only think to talk about his dick size when trying to seduce a woman is extremely boring. Well, except for the humor value.

By: mac

mac — Sat, 11 Sep 2010 02:55:37 +0000

I’m a straight guy and I hear guys brag about their dicks all the time. It’s at that point, I know that it must be really small. I mean, why else tell everybody how big it is unless you’re covering for something???

As for mine, it might not be very long, but it sure is skinny

By: Britni TheVadgeWig

Britni TheVadgeWig — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 20:54:14 +0000

I did indeed. Thank you

By: Aurore

Aurore — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 20:47:30 +0000

I assume you mean Part Deux (sorry the French major in me can’t let it go…)

By: Maitresse Rousse

Maitresse Rousse — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 19:02:17 +0000

*Standing up applauding*

Thank you for saying this. I thought I was the only person repulsed by this.

By: Philonous

Philonous — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 18:30:04 +0000

I think when we’re talking about a conscious seduction, less is often more.

As Marcel Proust writes, “An absence, the declining of an invitation to dinner, an unintentional, unconscious harshness are of more service [in a seduction] than all the cosmetics and clothing in the world.”

This aphorism also pretty much sums up why I’m so bad at conventional seduction; I tend to have a lot of enthusiasm for people I’m interested in and don’t hide it very well.

Also, I find lying and manipulation to be basically repugnant and the above strategy seems to require at least some willingness to engage in that sort of thing–at least some conscious dissembling, with apparent shifts between hot and cold to keep the object of your desire guessing. But there just seem to me to be a basic cruelty and lack of respect for the other person’s feelings in that, though that turns me off.

But earnest or sly, crudeness (e.g., discussion of the dimensions of one’s member) are, I think, right out.

By: twg

twg — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 16:22:48 +0000

That reminds me of in casual encounters when people are like “I have a big, thick tongue.” How do you breathe? Talk? And is that even a thing?