Comments on: Safe

By: Enough is Enough?

Enough is Enough? — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 04:02:38 +0000

[...] have this kind of weird bond with The Bruiser. This, of course, is totally one-sided. He treats me like shit. Calls me when it [...]

By: Ms.Inconspicuous

Ms.Inconspicuous — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 22:40:31 +0000

Yeah, I completely get this.

By: Butch

Butch — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 21:52:42 +0000

All I can say is… yay, she’s back.

By: Sulpicia

Sulpicia — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 21:52:28 +0000

Hey B: I hope this is a small move to feeling OK about posting the way you used to… Even if you were clear that this was written before your decision on a hiatus. I’m also one of those people that love your blog, exactly because of your honesty and passion, your delving into yourself, placing yourself under the harsh spotlight of your own gaze. Taking all of life on and pushing the envelope and being utterly human and writing about it. I suspect that those who let out their judgements and hate-ons don’t ever really have the guts to look in the mirror and deep inside.

Hope you are well.
XS

By: Mortal

Mortal — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 18:56:57 +0000

I think that’s very healthy and natural. Not to mention typical. Good on you.

By: Vanilla Kinks

Vanilla Kinks — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 16:55:45 +0000

I don’t have much to say really other than, I have a safe person too. I totally understand that.

By: Jess

Jess — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 15:54:00 +0000

You don’t have to justify yourself to us, just do what you need to do to heal. It’s your life

By: Saturday Stevens

Saturday Stevens — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 15:12:37 +0000

My thoughts exactly, Nell.

By: Pixie

Pixie — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 12:53:13 +0000

I wanted to second what MalkuthSephira, in the end your decisions are no one’s but your own.

By: Ric

Ric — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 12:24:53 +0000

I suspect you draw so many personal comments because you are so candid that somehow people feel connected in a way they don’t with many others. So in a sense it is a compliment to your honesty and openess. But really… all the insults? Do they really believe that you don’t have the right to make mistakes? Do they really believe that they have the ability to KNOW which of your choices are, in fact, mistakes? That people who don’t really know you are somehow in a position to judge you? They are pitiful. Of course you should block them from Twitter or where ever else you choose. It is your life. for good or ill , you make your choices.

I find your writing interesting, and I find reading about your personal life interesting. I do love your sense of style and outfits. Live your life. The hell with the critics.

Ric