Comments on: Picky http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Thu, 18 Nov 2010 02:47:46 +0000 hourly 1 By: Champers and Benz http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12060 Champers and Benz Sat, 24 Apr 2010 13:43:52 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12060 @blowjoy - please try not to generalize, considering the comment above yours (mine) demonstrates that not ALL straight men feel that way. ;-) @blowjoy – please try not to generalize, considering the comment above yours (mine) demonstrates that not ALL straight men feel that way. ;-)

]]> By: Nell Gwynne http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12057 Nell Gwynne Sat, 24 Apr 2010 13:06:33 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12057 Hell, I can't even get into most of the clubs down here in Savannah (how many more months till I turn 21?), but I have heard the "wanting to have boundaries respected=being picky" analogy way too many times. Hell, I can’t even get into most of the clubs down here in Savannah (how many more months till I turn 21?), but I have heard the “wanting to have boundaries respected=being picky” analogy way too many times.

]]> By: Jess http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12055 Jess Fri, 23 Apr 2010 21:08:26 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12055 C&B, I usually go to gay clubs for the same reason! It's much more relaxed when you can actually dance w/o fear of someones hand sliding down the back of your pants (which has actually happened to me at other places) C&B, I usually go to gay clubs for the same reason! It’s much more relaxed when you can actually dance w/o fear of someones hand sliding down the back of your pants (which has actually happened to me at other places)

]]> By: BlowJoy http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12052 BlowJoy Fri, 23 Apr 2010 16:25:56 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12052 @Eva: TOTALLY. It's amazing how offended straight men get in gay clubs, just getting looked at. It's like NOW YOU KNOW. @Eva: TOTALLY. It’s amazing how offended straight men get in gay clubs, just getting looked at. It’s like NOW YOU KNOW.

]]> By: twg http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12051 twg Fri, 23 Apr 2010 16:13:02 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12051 That gets a special ::headdesk:: from me today. That gets a special ::headdesk:: from me today.

]]> By: Champagne and Benz http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12050 Champagne and Benz Fri, 23 Apr 2010 15:01:53 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12050 I can't argue with you on this one. I've never been much of a clubber, but when I used to go to regular clubs with my female friends, I spent the entire time protecting them from sleazebags who'd start crotch-grinding with them, without so much as an introduction. My girlfriend (now wife) used to take us to gay clubs instead because she and her friends could actually just enjoy themselves and dance there. I can’t argue with you on this one. I’ve never been much of a clubber, but when I used to go to regular clubs with my female friends, I spent the entire time protecting them from sleazebags who’d start crotch-grinding with them, without so much as an introduction.

My girlfriend (now wife) used to take us to gay clubs instead because she and her friends could actually just enjoy themselves and dance there.

]]> By: Eva http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12049 Eva Fri, 23 Apr 2010 09:19:47 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12049 I was with some (hetero) boys I know at a gay club once. One of them started freaking out and left the building as he'd had his ass touched by a stranger, and had people rubbing up against him. He said people looked at him with preying eyes and he couldn't stand to be touched when he didn't want to, so we couldn't stay there even though the music was awesome. And I was thinking that this is what I have to live with wherever I go, and a spiteful part of me wanted us to stay and for him having to tolerate it the way that I am forced to do. It didn't seem fair that he could choose to leave the club and find himself another club, whereas I would have to stay at home if I wanted to avoid experiences like that. I was with some (hetero) boys I know at a gay club once. One of them started freaking out and left the building as he’d had his ass touched by a stranger, and had people rubbing up against him. He said people looked at him with preying eyes and he couldn’t stand to be touched when he didn’t want to, so we couldn’t stay there even though the music was awesome. And I was thinking that this is what I have to live with wherever I go, and a spiteful part of me wanted us to stay and for him having to tolerate it the way that I am forced to do. It didn’t seem fair that he could choose to leave the club and find himself another club, whereas I would have to stay at home if I wanted to avoid experiences like that.

]]> By: Amy http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12048 Amy Fri, 23 Apr 2010 08:14:11 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12048 This is my greatest pet hate. Also, my favourite thing is when you glare at guys (or I guess, girls although that's never happened to me) who touch you without consent/warning you get the 'are you frigid?' look. Mmmhhmmm asshole, I don't want your greasy mitts on my new dress because I'm sexually closed off. I guess I'm picky too! xxxx This is my greatest pet hate. Also, my favourite thing is when you glare at guys (or I guess, girls although that’s never happened to me) who touch you without consent/warning you get the ‘are you frigid?’ look. Mmmhhmmm asshole, I don’t want your greasy mitts on my new dress because I’m sexually closed off. I guess I’m picky too!

xxxx

]]> By: Eve http://britisshameless.com/2010/04/picky/comment-page-1/#comment-12047 Eve Fri, 23 Apr 2010 06:24:14 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1999#comment-12047 Wow, wanting to decide who gets to touch you and when is being picky? What are we, objects? Oh, wait. Wow, wanting to decide who gets to touch you and when is being picky? What are we, objects? Oh, wait.

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