Comments on: Size Matters (Except That It Doesn’t. And Shouldn’t) http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Sat, 11 Dec 2010 07:29:26 +0000 hourly 1 By: PSA: On Seduction, Part Duex http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/comment-page-1/#comment-15226 PSA: On Seduction, Part Duex Fri, 10 Sep 2010 16:14:23 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1161#comment-15226 [...] only do I not care how big your penis is, I a) shouldn’t know anything about it before I’ve actually [...] [...] only do I not care how big your penis is, I a) shouldn’t know anything about it before I’ve actually [...]

]]> By: alana http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/comment-page-1/#comment-7242 alana Wed, 17 Feb 2010 20:01:58 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1161#comment-7242 I definitely feel for men who have insecurities about their penis size (at least they don’t have to worry it smells wrong too though), but sexual health should always come first. While this is a perfect example of how the patriarchy’s two dimensional idea of masculine/feminine hurts both men and women, I still can’t believe some men would remove or refuse condoms because of those insecurities. That’s just disgusting. I definitely feel for men who have insecurities about their penis size (at least they don’t have to worry it smells wrong too though), but sexual health should always come first. While this is a perfect example of how the patriarchy’s two dimensional idea of masculine/feminine hurts both men and women, I still can’t believe some men would remove or refuse condoms because of those insecurities. That’s just disgusting.

]]> By: nuclearrainbow http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/comment-page-1/#comment-7241 nuclearrainbow Wed, 17 Feb 2010 19:49:12 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1161#comment-7241 You so get points for knowing an using xkcd! <br /><br />And penis-size, meh. People like that really don't help, because there are too many guys insecure about their penis, while they have absolutely no reason for that. Also, guys seem to overestimate average penis-size, that does not help either. <br /><br />/Nuclear Rainbow You so get points for knowing an using xkcd!

And penis-size, meh. People like that really don't help, because there are too many guys insecure about their penis, while they have absolutely no reason for that. Also, guys seem to overestimate average penis-size, that does not help either.

/Nuclear Rainbow

]]> By: Phallicity http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/comment-page-1/#comment-7237 Phallicity Wed, 17 Feb 2010 11:17:45 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1161#comment-7237 I think it's true that penis size matters much more to men than to women. Being an attentive lover, asking questions, taking queues and learning your partner is what leads to great sex, not wailing on some poor women with your gigantic penis.<br /><br />At the same time, some women do prefer larger penises, whether it be longer or thicker. I've always been fairly cocky (forgive the pun) however I'm pretty average in size. I'm comfortable with myself (most of the time) to the point where if my wife wants to try something bigger than me, I have no problem wearing a strap-on to meet her size and\or shape desires. For most men, however, I think such a notion would make them feel insufficient. It would be similar to asking a woman to get breast implants (except implants are a somewhat permanent and sometimes painfully complicated procedure.. I really only use this as a loose comparison).<br /><br />Maybe the OP is simply too immature, as her sentence structure and grammatical errors lead me to believe. She's only shortchanging herself in the end, but I feel sorry for any poor cock-owner stuck in a relationship with her. =p I think it's true that penis size matters much more to men than to women. Being an attentive lover, asking questions, taking queues and learning your partner is what leads to great sex, not wailing on some poor women with your gigantic penis.

At the same time, some women do prefer larger penises, whether it be longer or thicker. I've always been fairly cocky (forgive the pun) however I'm pretty average in size. I'm comfortable with myself (most of the time) to the point where if my wife wants to try something bigger than me, I have no problem wearing a strap-on to meet her size and\or shape desires. For most men, however, I think such a notion would make them feel insufficient. It would be similar to asking a woman to get breast implants (except implants are a somewhat permanent and sometimes painfully complicated procedure.. I really only use this as a loose comparison).

Maybe the OP is simply too immature, as her sentence structure and grammatical errors lead me to believe. She's only shortchanging herself in the end, but I feel sorry for any poor cock-owner stuck in a relationship with her. =p

]]> By: CarynSKA http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/comment-page-1/#comment-7234 CarynSKA Wed, 17 Feb 2010 04:40:37 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1161#comment-7234 Yeah... I actually stumbled across a site that was trying to scientifically 'prove' that all women like bigger penises. It made me sad, but it was kind of, almost funny in how wrong they were.<br />All I know about it is I'm a small girl, I can see how some sizes would be too big for me. But too small? I don't think so. It doesn't matter, as long as pain isn't involved I'm happy. Yeah… I actually stumbled across a site that was trying to scientifically 'prove' that all women like bigger penises. It made me sad, but it was kind of, almost funny in how wrong they were.
All I know about it is I'm a small girl, I can see how some sizes would be too big for me. But too small? I don't think so. It doesn't matter, as long as pain isn't involved I'm happy.

]]> By: Sulpicia http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/comment-page-1/#comment-7233 Sulpicia Wed, 17 Feb 2010 04:10:09 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1161#comment-7233 Penis - gorgeous. They just don't all fit the right way. Which should have nothing to do with individual penis size. I'm not perfect for every man. Not every man is perfect for me. That certainly upset me -- the quote, that is. (And that's just on a physical level.) Penis – gorgeous. They just don't all fit the right way. Which should have nothing to do with individual penis size. I'm not perfect for every man. Not every man is perfect for me. That certainly upset me — the quote, that is. (And that's just on a physical level.)

]]> By: SevurdLove http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/comment-page-1/#comment-7231 SevurdLove Wed, 17 Feb 2010 03:55:53 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1161#comment-7231 I was told by the first woman I ever had sex with that I was below average and just went with that. I was fine. If I couldn't do well with my penis I learned to be better with hands, emotions, and movements. After dating 3 guys it struck me that that wasn't true, she was saying it so I wouldn't leave her, I am a bit above average, but not too large... I don't think it phased me, but did explain some things. I have never measured. I don't want to know and don't care. But I am extremely surprised by the number of men and women who push stereotypes like this to an extreme... it is extremely sickening. <br /><br />Since we are discussing. I am fine with an average penis. That isn't what interests me in the first place. I was told by the first woman I ever had sex with that I was below average and just went with that. I was fine. If I couldn't do well with my penis I learned to be better with hands, emotions, and movements. After dating 3 guys it struck me that that wasn't true, she was saying it so I wouldn't leave her, I am a bit above average, but not too large… I don't think it phased me, but did explain some things. I have never measured. I don't want to know and don't care. But I am extremely surprised by the number of men and women who push stereotypes like this to an extreme… it is extremely sickening.

Since we are discussing. I am fine with an average penis. That isn't what interests me in the first place.

]]> By: Red http://britisshameless.com/2010/02/size-matters-except-that-it-doesnt-and-shouldnt/comment-page-1/#comment-7229 Red Wed, 17 Feb 2010 03:29:07 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1161#comment-7229 There seems to be a bit of debate between experts as to what the average penis size (when erect) in the US actually is. According to the Kinsey Institute (http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html), the most recent data puts average length between 5 and 6 inches. <br /><br />I prefer my men at around 6.5 - 7 inches because otherwise rough sex HURTS.<br /><br />This girl is not only grammatically challenged, she's also ignorant. I feel bad for any man who sleeps with her because she obviously judges and berates her lovers. Masculinity is not tied to dick length any more than femininity is tied to breast size. <br /><br />Ugh. Idiot. There seems to be a bit of debate between experts as to what the average penis size (when erect) in the US actually is. According to the Kinsey Institute (http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html), the most recent data puts average length between 5 and 6 inches.

I prefer my men at around 6.5 – 7 inches because otherwise rough sex HURTS.

This girl is not only grammatically challenged, she's also ignorant. I feel bad for any man who sleeps with her because she obviously judges and berates her lovers. Masculinity is not tied to dick length any more than femininity is tied to breast size.

Ugh. Idiot.

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