Comments on: Sizing Up Fashion Mags http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Sat, 11 Dec 2010 07:29:26 +0000 hourly 1 By: twg http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6598 twg Mon, 04 Jan 2010 16:36:47 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6598 I'm happy to see these different sized models, but I'll say the same thing about them (excluding the unairbrushed Renn ones, which are a breath of fresh, fresh air) that I said about the "real beauty" Dove commercials when I first saw them. Where are the lumps? Seeing all this smoothed-out flesh makes me feel lumpy. And I like my body, I do; and I'm a relatively thin person, but you get used to these perfectly smoothed shots and you think there's something wrong with you for having lines and divots and bumps or whatever. That's what I want to see more of. Reality. It can be on someone who's a size 0 or a size 20, but I need a heaping helping of it. I'm happy to see these different sized models, but I'll say the same thing about them (excluding the unairbrushed Renn ones, which are a breath of fresh, fresh air) that I said about the "real beauty" Dove commercials when I first saw them. Where are the lumps? Seeing all this smoothed-out flesh makes me feel lumpy. And I like my body, I do; and I'm a relatively thin person, but you get used to these perfectly smoothed shots and you think there's something wrong with you for having lines and divots and bumps or whatever. That's what I want to see more of. Reality. It can be on someone who's a size 0 or a size 20, but I need a heaping helping of it.

]]> By: Ghouldilocks http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6576 Ghouldilocks Sat, 02 Jan 2010 00:56:20 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6576 I love Crystal. She, as well as all the other women here, are absolutely stunning. But I agree with the above commenters. I mean, she doesn't make me feel like I need to lose 100 pounds in order to be beautiful but still, in order to look like her, I'd have to lose quite a bit... and grow a few more inches. I love Crystal. She, as well as all the other women here, are absolutely stunning. But I agree with the above commenters. I mean, she doesn't make me feel like I need to lose 100 pounds in order to be beautiful but still, in order to look like her, I'd have to lose quite a bit… and grow a few more inches.

]]> By: alana http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6574 alana Fri, 01 Jan 2010 18:38:16 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6574 Ditto everything everyone said. While it’s nice to see this shift happening (since it will help pave the way for a wider body acceptance in our culture), Crystal Renn is like the token “plus size” girl. The reality is she’s smaller then the average American woman and I find it kind of condescending the way magazines will trot her out as proof to their open mindedness and acceptance of my body (though I do love that we get to see lots of pictures of her because of this, but I always thought it was kind of ironic that she’s too small to wear Lane Bryant’s clothes but I had to put up six foot tall pictures of her more then once when I worked there). <br /><br />thedoggedpursuit: I can’t believe your friends say that to you! And yet, I kind of feel like that’s the message these magazines are telling us. Ditto everything everyone said. While it’s nice to see this shift happening (since it will help pave the way for a wider body acceptance in our culture), Crystal Renn is like the token “plus size” girl. The reality is she’s smaller then the average American woman and I find it kind of condescending the way magazines will trot her out as proof to their open mindedness and acceptance of my body (though I do love that we get to see lots of pictures of her because of this, but I always thought it was kind of ironic that she’s too small to wear Lane Bryant’s clothes but I had to put up six foot tall pictures of her more then once when I worked there).

thedoggedpursuit: I can’t believe your friends say that to you! And yet, I kind of feel like that’s the message these magazines are telling us.

]]> By: Librarian Babe http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6573 Librarian Babe Fri, 01 Jan 2010 16:46:44 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6573 I love seeing larger models in the pages of magazines, but like Lilly I can't help but notice that these women are fairly "normal" rather than actually "plus" sized. They're considered plus only because most models are incredibly skinny. But showing more diversity is a step in the right direction. I wish women my size could be considered beautiful enough to put in magazines, but at least these "plus" size models give me something reasonable to aspire to. I could never be 130 pounds and skinny. (Losing 90 lbs is not in my future, that's for sure. I'd have to starve myself. I'd be happy losing 25.) As a chubby 5'9" woman it's not part of my body makeup, but I could exercise, eat right and live healthily and look more like Crystal Renn and the other plus models.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing these photos.<br /><br />Nadia I love seeing larger models in the pages of magazines, but like Lilly I can't help but notice that these women are fairly "normal" rather than actually "plus" sized. They're considered plus only because most models are incredibly skinny. But showing more diversity is a step in the right direction. I wish women my size could be considered beautiful enough to put in magazines, but at least these "plus" size models give me something reasonable to aspire to. I could never be 130 pounds and skinny. (Losing 90 lbs is not in my future, that's for sure. I'd have to starve myself. I'd be happy losing 25.) As a chubby 5'9" woman it's not part of my body makeup, but I could exercise, eat right and live healthily and look more like Crystal Renn and the other plus models.

Thanks for sharing these photos.

Nadia

]]> By: thedoggedpursuit http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6572 thedoggedpursuit Fri, 01 Jan 2010 16:03:21 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6572 Agreed Britni. It's great to see someone at least a "little" closer to my size 14 presented in a fashion magazine but I also agree with Lilly -- it's hard to get too excited. These ladies appear to be about an American size 12 and they are considered "plus." Holy shnikies. <br /><br />She's also right about the "right" kinds of "extra" pounds. Subcutaneous fat that simply rounds out some curves and softens the overall form is much more acceptable than the apple-shaped belly fat that so many of us struggle with. It's also not "OK" to have "extra" fat around the chin and neck. <br /><br />After years of self-hatred of my body I now have friends, mostly very thin friends, who tell me "how brave" I am to have "accepted" my body as it is. Their well intentioned support is like nails on a f#*king chalkboard. They are sincere and they are right and their comments are certainly better than the alternatives like "you'd be so much prettier if you just lost ____ pounds." But really, at what point do we all get to stop being surprised and delighted to learn that a 170 pound woman can be beautiful? Agreed Britni. It's great to see someone at least a "little" closer to my size 14 presented in a fashion magazine but I also agree with Lilly — it's hard to get too excited. These ladies appear to be about an American size 12 and they are considered "plus." Holy shnikies.

She's also right about the "right" kinds of "extra" pounds. Subcutaneous fat that simply rounds out some curves and softens the overall form is much more acceptable than the apple-shaped belly fat that so many of us struggle with. It's also not "OK" to have "extra" fat around the chin and neck.

After years of self-hatred of my body I now have friends, mostly very thin friends, who tell me "how brave" I am to have "accepted" my body as it is. Their well intentioned support is like nails on a f#*king chalkboard. They are sincere and they are right and their comments are certainly better than the alternatives like "you'd be so much prettier if you just lost ____ pounds." But really, at what point do we all get to stop being surprised and delighted to learn that a 170 pound woman can be beautiful?

]]> By: Dangerous Lilly http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6571 Dangerous Lilly Fri, 01 Jan 2010 14:49:21 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6571 While I do love this, it still somewhat upsets me. These models are as "plus" as it'll ever get in mainstream. They're just barely plus, and plus in all the "right" sort of ways. Only one of them really has any belly fat worth mentioning, with a few baby rolls. Every woman gains her weight differently, but all you will ever see in fashion for plus size models is this. <br />It's about as unoffensive as you can get while adding 50 pounds onto the typical stick-thin model. And, to me, knowing a lot of plus size people...it's about as unrealistic as you can get, too. <br /><br />It's a good start but I guess it proves to me that culture is inching towards acceptance, but its a very limited strings-attached acceptance. One where I don't yet fit in with my cellulite and big belly. While I do love this, it still somewhat upsets me. These models are as "plus" as it'll ever get in mainstream. They're just barely plus, and plus in all the "right" sort of ways. Only one of them really has any belly fat worth mentioning, with a few baby rolls. Every woman gains her weight differently, but all you will ever see in fashion for plus size models is this.
It's about as unoffensive as you can get while adding 50 pounds onto the typical stick-thin model. And, to me, knowing a lot of plus size people…it's about as unrealistic as you can get, too.

It's a good start but I guess it proves to me that culture is inching towards acceptance, but its a very limited strings-attached acceptance. One where I don't yet fit in with my cellulite and big belly.

]]> By: Sa http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6570 Sa Fri, 01 Jan 2010 07:39:30 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6570 Wonderful wonderful. I just wish we could have DIVERSITY: some skinny models, some "average", some "plus-size" etc. Seeing these pictures is almost shocking because we're so unused to flesh being displayed proudly ,without shame. <br /><br />Hope this trend continues for the new year. Wonderful wonderful. I just wish we could have DIVERSITY: some skinny models, some "average", some "plus-size" etc. Seeing these pictures is almost shocking because we're so unused to flesh being displayed proudly ,without shame.

Hope this trend continues for the new year.

]]> By: sqweakygurl http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6569 sqweakygurl Fri, 01 Jan 2010 07:03:16 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6569 i love V magazine. V and Pop Brit are the only two super glossy's that I'm willing to bend over backwards and spend ten bucks for. they are so creative and they always do the most amazing lay outs. crystal can't ever do any wrong the girl is drop dead gorgeous along with every other woman featured in the spread. i think the designers have to be more open to having plus size models on their runways. with snobbish pricks like karl lagerfeld still calling the shots it will be a long time before it becomes the norm. i can't wait for this issue to hit the shelf. thanks for another fabulous post Britni :) i love V magazine. V and Pop Brit are the only two super glossy's that I'm willing to bend over backwards and spend ten bucks for. they are so creative and they always do the most amazing lay outs. crystal can't ever do any wrong the girl is drop dead gorgeous along with every other woman featured in the spread. i think the designers have to be more open to having plus size models on their runways. with snobbish pricks like karl lagerfeld still calling the shots it will be a long time before it becomes the norm. i can't wait for this issue to hit the shelf. thanks for another fabulous post Britni :)

]]> By: Meg http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/sizing-up-fashion-mags/comment-page-1/#comment-6568 Meg Fri, 01 Jan 2010 06:12:32 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1052#comment-6568 I love, love, love, love, LOVE this post, Britni! All of those models are stunningly gorgeous--the blonde girl in the first few pictures is SEXY as hell. Of course, so is Crystal. <br /><br />She's not only gorgeous, but she is, hands-down, a better model than the skinny girl--nothing to do with looks, but just in her poses. She's more interesting, and there's more motion in her pictures than in the other girls. Again, nothing to do with size, just an observation.<br /><br />Fat girls rule! I love, love, love, love, LOVE this post, Britni! All of those models are stunningly gorgeous–the blonde girl in the first few pictures is SEXY as hell. Of course, so is Crystal.

She's not only gorgeous, but she is, hands-down, a better model than the skinny girl–nothing to do with looks, but just in her poses. She's more interesting, and there's more motion in her pictures than in the other girls. Again, nothing to do with size, just an observation.

Fat girls rule!

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