Comments on: Conversations With My Parents, Or Why I Need To Move Out http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Fri, 19 Nov 2010 02:54:12 +0000 hourly 1 By: You Say “Dyke” Like It’s A Bad Thing http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-15046 You Say “Dyke” Like It’s A Bad Thing Wed, 01 Sep 2010 04:02:42 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-15046 [...] the Queer Thing is the one thing she can’t come to terms with. She knows I review sex toys. She knows I’ve done “S&M” (her words, not mine) stuff. She knows I met the girlfriend of a guy I’d been kind of seeing. [...] [...] the Queer Thing is the one thing she can’t come to terms with. She knows I review sex toys. She knows I’ve done “S&M” (her words, not mine) stuff. She knows I met the girlfriend of a guy I’d been kind of seeing. [...]

]]> By: JonsBabydoll http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6831 JonsBabydoll Fri, 22 Jan 2010 05:14:47 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6831 Oh trust me, it doesn't get any better once you are away. I live with my Daddy, thousands of miles AWAY from my mother. <br /><br />We will be having a normal conversation, take this...<br /><br />Me: Was [cousin's] birthday party nice?<br /><br />Mom: Yeah [cousin] got some great gifts. It's always nice to see family.<br /><br />Me: Mmmhmm.<br /><br />Mom: So are you the Domme or a sub?<br /><br />Me: [shocked face] WHAT?<br /><br />Mom: You know, are you the Domme or the sub?<br /><br />Me: Um, the sub. <br /><br />Mom: *sighs disappointingly*<br /><br />O. M. G. They won't learn. Never will learn. Imagine if she knew I identified as a slave and not a sub! lmao. Goodness, I really don't want to think about that one... Oh trust me, it doesn't get any better once you are away. I live with my Daddy, thousands of miles AWAY from my mother.

We will be having a normal conversation, take this…

Me: Was [cousin's] birthday party nice?

Mom: Yeah [cousin] got some great gifts. It's always nice to see family.

Me: Mmmhmm.

Mom: So are you the Domme or a sub?

Me: [shocked face] WHAT?

Mom: You know, are you the Domme or the sub?

Me: Um, the sub.

Mom: *sighs disappointingly*

O. M. G. They won't learn. Never will learn. Imagine if she knew I identified as a slave and not a sub! lmao. Goodness, I really don't want to think about that one…

]]> By: sqweakygurl http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6734 sqweakygurl Thu, 14 Jan 2010 02:36:34 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6734 I fortunately live thousands and thousands of miles away from my mom, so i never really worry about what she may and may not know. she doesn't ask and i don't tell, Sometimes i want to scream 'I’m in to BDSM!" and get it over with. But I’m not trying to press my luck. LoL<br /><br />I feel you though britni parents just don’t understand :\ I fortunately live thousands and thousands of miles away from my mom, so i never really worry about what she may and may not know. she doesn't ask and i don't tell, Sometimes i want to scream 'I’m in to BDSM!" and get it over with. But I’m not trying to press my luck. LoL

I feel you though britni parents just don’t understand :\

]]> By: alana http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6726 alana Wed, 13 Jan 2010 18:42:54 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6726 This post is really funny and hopefully your mom gets the hint sooner or later. <br /><br />Oh, and Sa's mom sounds awesome. This post is really funny and hopefully your mom gets the hint sooner or later.

Oh, and Sa's mom sounds awesome.

]]> By: Topaz http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6725 Topaz Wed, 13 Jan 2010 17:47:45 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6725 Oh, thanks for the chuckle! I don't live with the folks anymore, but oh, the days I did were interesting, and I should tell you it doesn't stop when you move... <br />But your parents are a lot more open than most others would be. It's a blessing that they accept your sexual side.<br />But all in all, entertaining stories! It shows a side of you I haven't yet seen. Thanks for sharing! Oh, thanks for the chuckle! I don't live with the folks anymore, but oh, the days I did were interesting, and I should tell you it doesn't stop when you move…
But your parents are a lot more open than most others would be. It's a blessing that they accept your sexual side.
But all in all, entertaining stories! It shows a side of you I haven't yet seen. Thanks for sharing!

]]> By: Wilhelmina http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6724 Wilhelmina Wed, 13 Jan 2010 17:02:41 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6724 hahaha! oh, dear... = why i don't think i can ever live with my parents AND have privacy / not be treated like a kid. you sound like you're very patient with them.<br /><br />i ended up telling my mom i review sex toys, and the following comments ensued...<br /><br />#1 <br />Mom: don't you ever get tired of doing that? you're not really helping anyone by doing that, are you?<br />Me: and people are "helped" by movie reviews, how? <br /><br />#2<br />Me: *blogging in the living room* (4 people + tiny apartment = no privacy) Mom, can you not look?<br />Mom: Why can't I look?? If you're writing something that you have to hide, then you just shouldn't write it!<br />Me: *sigh* hahaha! oh, dear… = why i don't think i can ever live with my parents AND have privacy / not be treated like a kid. you sound like you're very patient with them.

i ended up telling my mom i review sex toys, and the following comments ensued…

#1
Mom: don't you ever get tired of doing that? you're not really helping anyone by doing that, are you?
Me: and people are "helped" by movie reviews, how?

#2
Me: *blogging in the living room* (4 people + tiny apartment = no privacy) Mom, can you not look?
Mom: Why can't I look?? If you're writing something that you have to hide, then you just shouldn't write it!
Me: *sigh*

]]> By: theybelongtous http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6723 theybelongtous Wed, 13 Jan 2010 15:55:16 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6723 My mother and sisters know I review toys. And they know (some of) what I have, as they read the blog. They have not asked questions about anything nor have they commented about them. I expect Sis2 to ask at some point, but who knows.<br /><br />When I lived with my parents right after I got home from the military, my Sil2 found a toy of mine and reported it to my brother. Who reported it to my parents. Who reported it to the pastor of the church. And I got hauled in to be chastised. None of them appreciated it when I told them all that what happened behind my bedroom door was between god and me, and it was none of their business what it was. I certainly didn't ask what they did behind their bedroom door.<br /><br />*shrug*<br /><br />I have always been the black sheep though. <br /><br />peace... My mother and sisters know I review toys. And they know (some of) what I have, as they read the blog. They have not asked questions about anything nor have they commented about them. I expect Sis2 to ask at some point, but who knows.

When I lived with my parents right after I got home from the military, my Sil2 found a toy of mine and reported it to my brother. Who reported it to my parents. Who reported it to the pastor of the church. And I got hauled in to be chastised. None of them appreciated it when I told them all that what happened behind my bedroom door was between god and me, and it was none of their business what it was. I certainly didn't ask what they did behind their bedroom door.

*shrug*

I have always been the black sheep though.

peace…

]]> By: Saraid http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6722 Saraid Wed, 13 Jan 2010 15:03:06 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6722 I actually tried to tell my mom I reviewed once in the name of being "open" with her. She just freaked out and I haven't mentioned it since. She would die if she knew the amount I have. I actually tried to tell my mom I reviewed once in the name of being "open" with her. She just freaked out and I haven't mentioned it since. She would die if she knew the amount I have.

]]> By: sarahbear http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6721 sarahbear Wed, 13 Jan 2010 12:22:46 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6721 Hehe. I don't live with my parents so I don't have that issue, but I don't think I would even if I did. My parents are pretty non-caring about that sort of thing. I bought my younger siblings(who are over 18 but lived at home) sex toys and stuff for Christmas and no one batted an eyelash. <br /><br />I show my mom stuff I got all the time and talk to her about it. She's commented that if I need all this stuff that my husband must not be doing his job, but I just tell her how much fun it is and how it spices things up. She's terrified of the Pure Wand and thinks it looks like a door knob. Hehe. I don't live with my parents so I don't have that issue, but I don't think I would even if I did. My parents are pretty non-caring about that sort of thing. I bought my younger siblings(who are over 18 but lived at home) sex toys and stuff for Christmas and no one batted an eyelash.

I show my mom stuff I got all the time and talk to her about it. She's commented that if I need all this stuff that my husband must not be doing his job, but I just tell her how much fun it is and how it spices things up. She's terrified of the Pure Wand and thinks it looks like a door knob.

]]> By: Another Suburban Mom http://britisshameless.com/2010/01/conversations-with-my-parents-or-why-i-need-to-move-out/comment-page-1/#comment-6720 Another Suburban Mom Wed, 13 Jan 2010 12:08:23 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=1072#comment-6720 As a mom, I can see that they are curious about what you are doing and concerned for your well being. As a mom, I can see that they are curious about what you are doing and concerned for your well being.

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