Comments on: Daddy’s Little Girl

By: Regression

Regression — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 04:02:14 +0000

[...] why my relationship with Profligacy was so comforting for me at the time I found it. I got to be the little girl and be taken care of at a time when I needed it most and was horribly stressed. I was lost and [...]

By: Jacalicious

Jacalicious — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 01:00:04 +0000

I find it fascinating that people "don't get this" when it is such a commonly exploited mainstream fantasy. Seen a 'naughty school girl' outfit lately? How about the Japanese lolitas? I dunno, it seems VERY common to me that men are attracted to young girls, and are turned on by the feeling of being the older, more powerful force in the scene.
It is different than being a pedophile, because being attracted to a young girl (maybe too young to be socially acceptable) is totally commonplace, and it isn't being attracted to a CHILD it is being attracted to a young WOMAN. Which, however inappropriate you may see it, is totally normal and animalistic.... "Barely Legal" anyone? And playing into that common fantasy as a woman is the same playing into fantasy as wearing all leather or any other outfit worn for visual pleasure. You are turned on by turning on your master, and feeling comfort in that.

There doesn't seem to be anything to 'get'.

By: Jake (of Facts and Friction)

Jake (of Facts and Friction) — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 20:54:10 +0000

Ms. Inconspicuous – you're alive!

By: juliettia

juliettia — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 05:49:50 +0000

There is a mix of comments already posted that share my views on this type of play. While it is not appealing to me in the sense of Daddy/Daughter. I do experience the regress of feeling utterly helpless and wanting my Husband to take care of me and make things stop hurting.

From Ms. Inconspicous "A pedophile would NEVER be turned on by a grown woman--no matter how baby-like her behavior, no matter how convincing her role-play. That anyone would think otherwise indicates that they're unclear about what pedophilia actually is."

and lilblackdress "Every person has their own kinks. We all have our sex lives, hopefully, in a positive and satisfying and consensual environments."

say the rest of what I want to say better than I could hope to say it.

By: lilblackdress

lilblackdress — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 02:32:12 +0000

My lover and I don't actually engage in age play (unless one uses a very liberal definition and that wearing kick-pleat skirts, collared button-up shirts, and blazers constitute age play), so instead I'll take this question from another situation that we like to roleplay: rape and nonconsensual situations.

Where we are now in our roleplay is an evolution of our sex life. It began with testing the boundaries here and there, to see what we liked and didn't like. We've been together over 15 years and throughout that time, we've changed the intensity of the roleplaying here and there to where it is today.

Do either of us want to be in a genuine nonconsensual situation? Of course not. Do either of us want to initiate a genuine nonconsensual situation? Of course not. However, we like to pretend with each other. We enjoy using each other and we enjoy being used. When we're together, it's safe and we both find it really hot and that positive sexual energy is a great vibe.

Every person has their own kinks. There are some quite "vanilla" things that people do that completely squick me and my lover out. I'm sure there is stuff that we do that squick others out. However, we all have our sex lives, hopefully, in a positive and satisfying and consensual environments.

By: Jess

Jess — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 03:49:09 +0000

(the blog decided to eat my first post, so sorry if this shows up twice)

Anyway, That's just it…I have no idea what kind of person is undoubtedly a loving father, but also gets off on pretending he is an abusive, incestuous father to his imaginary daughter. The dynamic of that is confusing to me…
I'm not aiming for condemnation, nor am I insinuating his parenting skills aren't up to par because of this fantasy play he is into, I just can't grasp the consistency as an outsider.

By: Britni TheVadgeWig

Britni TheVadgeWig — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 03:16:53 +0000

Jess, may I ask what kind of person you think would be turned on my a scenario like that? And how what He and I do in a bedroom alone together affects His parenting skills?

By: Jess

Jess — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 03:01:17 +0000

I don't think anyone here isn't grasping that what Britni and her partner are doing is fantasy play. I think what some people, including myself, are having a hard time wrapping our heads around is what makes something so disturbing as this APPEALING enough to want to role play like this. Of course it isn't real…but like it or not, when someone likes to pretend that they are a twisted father figure, molesting a pretend daughter, it is very hard not to question what kind of person is turned on by a scenario like that. Especially someone with kids.

By: Ghouldilocks

Ghouldilocks — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 00:58:04 +0000

If someone can't tell the difference between fantasy and reality then perhaps it is they who have the problem, and not Britni & Profligacy.

As far as I know, she is not really a little girl and he's not really her father. Is there something I'm missing here? Because I really don't see the problem with two consenting adults participating in a little role-play.

By: mydesire

mydesire — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 23:22:00 +0000

Ah yes, the controversy of age play. On my erotica blog I wrote several entries in a series I called the Daddy/babygirl series. I did get one comment from someone saying I should be put in jail. So I have had to make things clear and put warnings on my posts. I stated pretty much what you did at the beginning of this post.
I'm sure that this doesn't come as a surprise, but the posts that get the most hits and the most google search terms all have to do with my Daddy/babygirl series... so as much as there are people saying it's disgusting, those are the posts getting the most hits. On the At Longings End blog, Sylvanus wrote a post about us actually playing out a Daddy/babygirl scene.. guess what... that is also the post that gets the most hits on our blog.
I can see why Age Play can be such a touchy subject. It is delicate. Thanks for writing such an informative post.

xo mina