Comments on: Love Me, Love Me http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/love-me-love-me/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Thu, 18 Nov 2010 02:47:46 +0000 hourly 1 By: Bass Man http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/love-me-love-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2881 Bass Man Wed, 13 May 2009 22:34:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=713#comment-2881 I realized about a year ago, that despite having been married for 15 years, and several intense relationships that I had never been "in love".<br /><br />This Spring I though I was ready to try again but quickly realized that I was not able to nor very interested in immersing myself in another empty relationship. <br /><br />I may never find "love" and right now I'm okay with that. I realized about a year ago, that despite having been married for 15 years, and several intense relationships that I had never been "in love".

This Spring I though I was ready to try again but quickly realized that I was not able to nor very interested in immersing myself in another empty relationship.

I may never find "love" and right now I'm okay with that.

]]> By: PrettyPrettyPrincess http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/love-me-love-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2880 PrettyPrettyPrincess Wed, 13 May 2009 21:19:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=713#comment-2880 Everyone deserves to have someone who deep down loves them and only them. It's real, it happens, and it is good to recognize that there has been companionship and fondness and other kinds of love in the past, but that the real thing is still out there. I don't go in much for external validation but there really is something special about having that feeling, knowing someone loves you that way, and hopefully they are deserving to have you love them that way in return.<br /><br />(also, haha, my verification word below is demon. I guess we all have them.) Everyone deserves to have someone who deep down loves them and only them. It's real, it happens, and it is good to recognize that there has been companionship and fondness and other kinds of love in the past, but that the real thing is still out there. I don't go in much for external validation but there really is something special about having that feeling, knowing someone loves you that way, and hopefully they are deserving to have you love them that way in return.

(also, haha, my verification word below is demon. I guess we all have them.)

]]> By: twg http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/love-me-love-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2879 twg Wed, 13 May 2009 20:08:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=713#comment-2879 I think just because you claim to not be able to see it in retrospect, it doesn't mean you weren't in love. For God's sake, I certainly can't see me feeling anything for my ex, in retrospect, but I know that, at one time, I definitely did.<br /><br />Btw, I am SO glad that shit it over, plus I just found out he got evicted from the place he was subletting. Evil twg laughs at his misfortune. I think just because you claim to not be able to see it in retrospect, it doesn't mean you weren't in love. For God's sake, I certainly can't see me feeling anything for my ex, in retrospect, but I know that, at one time, I definitely did.

Btw, I am SO glad that shit it over, plus I just found out he got evicted from the place he was subletting. Evil twg laughs at his misfortune.

]]> By: river http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/love-me-love-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2872 river Wed, 13 May 2009 03:28:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=713#comment-2872 Brit-<br />I always think love is two people melting into one. It's not giving up individuality. It's a feeling of comfort and compatibility that transcends everything, including sex. I say this because after a while, sex cools down but becomes more intense on a soulful level. If it's not rough it ain't fun only goes so long, but you fav Lady Ga Ga doesn't tell you that...but I did!<br /><br />Feel good about yourself, stop looking and you will find!<br /><br />Love ya,<br /><br />Riva Brit-
I always think love is two people melting into one. It's not giving up individuality. It's a feeling of comfort and compatibility that transcends everything, including sex. I say this because after a while, sex cools down but becomes more intense on a soulful level. If it's not rough it ain't fun only goes so long, but you fav Lady Ga Ga doesn't tell you that…but I did!

Feel good about yourself, stop looking and you will find!

Love ya,

Riva

]]> By: alana http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/love-me-love-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2860 alana Tue, 12 May 2009 17:05:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=713#comment-2860 I think the idea of that head over heels love is one of the things damaging our young girls. I’ve been in love hundreds of times in hundreds of different degrees. From friends to family to books that feel like an extension of my being. To divide love into the love we feel in a relationship hurts the whole I think.<br /><br />I’ve been loved passionately by two men and it still didn’t get to the degree people expect from love. Does that make my love any less? No. It just makes it based in reality and all the more precious for it. <br /><br />I also think that love that burns too brightly burns out too quickly. It can’t help it. And eventually the fire that ignites your passion will burn a whole between you. <br /><br />Ok, I’m gonna stop. I don’t know why the fuck I started rambling...lol I think the idea of that head over heels love is one of the things damaging our young girls. I’ve been in love hundreds of times in hundreds of different degrees. From friends to family to books that feel like an extension of my being. To divide love into the love we feel in a relationship hurts the whole I think.

I’ve been loved passionately by two men and it still didn’t get to the degree people expect from love. Does that make my love any less? No. It just makes it based in reality and all the more precious for it.

I also think that love that burns too brightly burns out too quickly. It can’t help it. And eventually the fire that ignites your passion will burn a whole between you.

Ok, I’m gonna stop. I don’t know why the fuck I started rambling…lol

]]> By: Britni TheVadgeWig http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/love-me-love-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2856 Britni TheVadgeWig Tue, 12 May 2009 16:25:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=713#comment-2856 Yeah, I know this. And I'm not actively looking, really. I've just been thinking and analyzing my past relationships a lot lately, and this was something I realized when listening to some sappy ass love song yesterday. Blah. Yeah, I know this. And I'm not actively looking, really. I've just been thinking and analyzing my past relationships a lot lately, and this was something I realized when listening to some sappy ass love song yesterday. Blah.

]]> By: Welcome to Chicago, Jillinois http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/love-me-love-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2855 Welcome to Chicago, Jillinois Tue, 12 May 2009 16:24:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=713#comment-2855 We find things when we stop looking. <br /><br />Yeah, I'm motherfucking Confucious, I know. We find things when we stop looking.

Yeah, I'm motherfucking Confucious, I know.

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