Comments on: Floundering http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/floundering/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Fri, 19 Nov 2010 02:54:12 +0000 hourly 1 By: Welcome to Chicago, Jillinois http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/floundering/comment-page-1/#comment-2847 Welcome to Chicago, Jillinois Mon, 11 May 2009 15:14:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=709#comment-2847 Pain is a sign that something is wrong. Nothing worth anything is going to come easily. And most often the right way is the hardest way.<br /><br />I know I'm full of cliches. But I believe it's true. When I wanted someone the most was when I was at my unhealthiest. It was super hard to be alone and just work on me. But I did. And it was good. And now my relationships are healthy. SO much better on this side of the fence than putting up with BS. Anyhoo. Just saying hang in there. Put you first. The rest will come after.<br /><br />xoxo Pain is a sign that something is wrong. Nothing worth anything is going to come easily. And most often the right way is the hardest way.

I know I'm full of cliches. But I believe it's true. When I wanted someone the most was when I was at my unhealthiest. It was super hard to be alone and just work on me. But I did. And it was good. And now my relationships are healthy. SO much better on this side of the fence than putting up with BS. Anyhoo. Just saying hang in there. Put you first. The rest will come after.

xoxo

]]> By: ~sublimealice~ http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/floundering/comment-page-1/#comment-2831 ~sublimealice~ Sun, 10 May 2009 20:27:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=709#comment-2831 hi, i live where you are now. it's a pretty shitty place, but you get used to it. <br />please don't get used to it. <br />i don't know how to help, because this post has been my life for almost 10 years now. it sucks in here, and you're too cool to be here for too long. hi, i live where you are now. it's a pretty shitty place, but you get used to it.
please don't get used to it.
i don't know how to help, because this post has been my life for almost 10 years now. it sucks in here, and you're too cool to be here for too long.

]]> By: Nelfy http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/floundering/comment-page-1/#comment-2826 Nelfy Sun, 10 May 2009 12:28:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=709#comment-2826 I know EXACTLY how you feel... I know EXACTLY how you feel…

]]> By: Red http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/floundering/comment-page-1/#comment-2823 Red Sun, 10 May 2009 10:36:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=709#comment-2823 I've wondered where you've been, hun. Give yourself a break, sweets. Ending any relationship, especially one that you know is toxic, is really difficult. Give yourself time to mourn and heal, but be strong. We're all very proud of you for standing up for yourself and hopefully starting on the path to discovering what you really deserve: your dreams.<br /><br />You'll come back to us; we know it.<br /><br />"Even in the darkness every color can be found" I've wondered where you've been, hun. Give yourself a break, sweets. Ending any relationship, especially one that you know is toxic, is really difficult. Give yourself time to mourn and heal, but be strong. We're all very proud of you for standing up for yourself and hopefully starting on the path to discovering what you really deserve: your dreams.

You'll come back to us; we know it.

"Even in the darkness every color can be found"

]]> By: Meg http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/floundering/comment-page-1/#comment-2822 Meg Sun, 10 May 2009 06:28:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=709#comment-2822 It's classic depression--I was the same way at my worst.<br /><br />We miss you and can't wait for you to come back. You'll do it in your own time. It's classic depression–I was the same way at my worst.

We miss you and can't wait for you to come back. You'll do it in your own time.

]]> By: I'm MIXED bitch. http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/floundering/comment-page-1/#comment-2821 I'm MIXED bitch. Sun, 10 May 2009 05:38:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=709#comment-2821 We miss you B. We all go through phases of disconnect, especially after difficult emotional periods. When my boyfriend broke up with me last year, I separated myself from everyone that had previously been close to me, and from all activities that I used to take part in. It all just seemed exhausting. <br /><br />I don't mean to talk about myself. Just saying that I've been there. When you're ready, if you ever want, I am so here for you. We don't talk all the time, but we're both the shit, so I feel like we have a good foundation for mutual understanding and great convos. I lub you. [: We miss you B. We all go through phases of disconnect, especially after difficult emotional periods. When my boyfriend broke up with me last year, I separated myself from everyone that had previously been close to me, and from all activities that I used to take part in. It all just seemed exhausting.

I don't mean to talk about myself. Just saying that I've been there. When you're ready, if you ever want, I am so here for you. We don't talk all the time, but we're both the shit, so I feel like we have a good foundation for mutual understanding and great convos. I lub you. [:

]]> By: elitza http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/floundering/comment-page-1/#comment-2819 elitza Sun, 10 May 2009 04:07:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=709#comment-2819 you know, it's not just you.<br /><br />I've been completely withdrawing from <i>everyone</i>. It sucks. But at the same time, it's giving me a chance to evaluate things... make cogent decisions. And I think you're going through that too.<br /><br />It's okay, and we miss you. And we're looking forward to having you back.<br /><br />kisses, loves, hugs.<br />e you know, it's not just you.

I've been completely withdrawing from everyone. It sucks. But at the same time, it's giving me a chance to evaluate things… make cogent decisions. And I think you're going through that too.

It's okay, and we miss you. And we're looking forward to having you back.

kisses, loves, hugs.
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