Comments on: Evolve http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Sat, 11 Dec 2010 07:29:26 +0000 hourly 1 By: LL Cool Joe http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3172 LL Cool Joe Wed, 27 May 2009 22:40:43 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3172 I can relate to this post. I'll be honest with you mate, some of your posts I can't, for different reasons, some I'll even avoid, but some, I can totally see where you are coming from.<br /><br />Thinking of you on the road to finding yourself, and others along the way too. :) I can relate to this post. I'll be honest with you mate, some of your posts I can't, for different reasons, some I'll even avoid, but some, I can totally see where you are coming from.

Thinking of you on the road to finding yourself, and others along the way too. :)

]]> By: Eve http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3167 Eve Wed, 27 May 2009 18:39:57 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3167 Oooh, I just want to say I think it's wonderful what you're doing. Growing is such a beautiful thing, despite how bloody painful and difficult it can be. I know we still don't know each other very well, but I'll be here should you need my support. I wish you the best. :)<br /><br />*hugs* Oooh, I just want to say I think it's wonderful what you're doing. Growing is such a beautiful thing, despite how bloody painful and difficult it can be. I know we still don't know each other very well, but I'll be here should you need my support. I wish you the best. :)

*hugs*

]]> By: Nolens Volens http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3165 Nolens Volens Wed, 27 May 2009 16:03:22 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3165 I know what you mean. I've used blogging as a form of introspective therapy. Helps to come back later and see what I wrote and how that sounded to me. See you on the other end. I know what you mean. I've used blogging as a form of introspective therapy. Helps to come back later and see what I wrote and how that sounded to me. See you on the other end.

]]> By: Daniela http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3161 Daniela Wed, 27 May 2009 14:39:31 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3161 You're going to be okay in the long run, and we're all cheering for you. =) Also, come move back up north so we can hang out. That would solve that damn lack of local support thing (which is a damn shame).<br /><br />As everyone else has stated, really looking into the mirror and discovering there are some absolutely hideous parts to your (a general you) personality is hard. Since you want to work on those parts, I think you're off on a good start. You're going to be okay in the long run, and we're all cheering for you. =) Also, come move back up north so we can hang out. That would solve that damn lack of local support thing (which is a damn shame).

As everyone else has stated, really looking into the mirror and discovering there are some absolutely hideous parts to your (a general you) personality is hard. Since you want to work on those parts, I think you're off on a good start.

]]> By: April http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3159 April Wed, 27 May 2009 13:47:39 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3159 We all make mistakes. As long as you learn from them and try not to keep making the same mistakes repeatedly, you'll surely learn a lot about yourself and what you want out of life. <br /><br />As Eliot said, you are intelligent and self-aware. I'm confident you'll get through this with only some minor bumps and scrapes. We all make mistakes. As long as you learn from them and try not to keep making the same mistakes repeatedly, you'll surely learn a lot about yourself and what you want out of life.

As Eliot said, you are intelligent and self-aware. I'm confident you'll get through this with only some minor bumps and scrapes.

]]> By: Sa http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3156 Sa Wed, 27 May 2009 08:21:49 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3156 I love your thoughtful, introspective topics. <br />I wish you luck. I love your thoughtful, introspective topics.
I wish you luck.

]]> By: Apollo Unchained http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3155 Apollo Unchained Wed, 27 May 2009 08:17:16 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3155 Love the DiFranco quote ...<br /><br />Self examination is great but it has to be balanced to be healthy. Some folks have a hard time taking their eyes <i>off</i> the things about themselves that are "ugly, dysfunctional, unattractive ... weak, pathetic and self-destructive." <br /><br />I find that a little self-criticism goes a long way, and any more than that becomes destructive. We need to consider our strengths/assets/good traits probably 3-4 times as often as our deficiencies. Love the DiFranco quote …

Self examination is great but it has to be balanced to be healthy. Some folks have a hard time taking their eyes off the things about themselves that are "ugly, dysfunctional, unattractive … weak, pathetic and self-destructive."

I find that a little self-criticism goes a long way, and any more than that becomes destructive. We need to consider our strengths/assets/good traits probably 3-4 times as often as our deficiencies.

]]> By: nuclearrainbow http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3153 nuclearrainbow Wed, 27 May 2009 06:26:29 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3153 I like reading about "deep" stuff, about struggles, about growth way more than the artificial 'I had a nice day today and I fucked so and so'. That starts to get... shallow... after a while. <br /><br />And seeing the ugly things sucks as hell, tell me about it... The thing with working on issues is that you can get totally absorbed by them, only seeing the bad stuff, and forgetting the good stuff. Sometimes it's so difficult to see and remember that everyone is a multifaceted person, with good and bad sides. <br /><br />All the luck wished on your quest.<br /><br />/Nuclear Rainbow I like reading about "deep" stuff, about struggles, about growth way more than the artificial 'I had a nice day today and I fucked so and so'. That starts to get… shallow… after a while.

And seeing the ugly things sucks as hell, tell me about it… The thing with working on issues is that you can get totally absorbed by them, only seeing the bad stuff, and forgetting the good stuff. Sometimes it's so difficult to see and remember that everyone is a multifaceted person, with good and bad sides.

All the luck wished on your quest.

/Nuclear Rainbow

]]> By: alana http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3152 alana Wed, 27 May 2009 06:24:44 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3152 I’ve got the perfect pair of shoes and some bitchen music. Let’s hit the road… :) I’ve got the perfect pair of shoes and some bitchen music. Let’s hit the road… :)

]]> By: Welcome to Chicago, Jillinois http://britisshameless.com/2009/05/evolve/comment-page-1/#comment-3151 Welcome to Chicago, Jillinois Wed, 27 May 2009 05:17:05 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=751#comment-3151 xoxoxoxoxoxooxoxooxoxooxoxooxoxoxoxooxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxooxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoox xoxoxoxoxoxooxoxooxoxooxoxooxoxoxoxooxoxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoxooxoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxooxoxoox

]]>