Comments on: Reject http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Thu, 18 Nov 2010 02:47:46 +0000 hourly 1 By: Eliot http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1437 Eliot Wed, 28 Jan 2009 18:17:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1437 I was rejected as well. I don't have a problem with eHarmony not catering to the gay community. There are plenty of "gay only" dating and hook-up sites. Hell, there's even a dating site for geeks. lol Or should we make all dating sites all-inclusive? <br /><br />Also, I heard somewhere that they're creating, or have created, a special service via eHarmony for gays. I was rejected as well. I don't have a problem with eHarmony not catering to the gay community. There are plenty of "gay only" dating and hook-up sites. Hell, there's even a dating site for geeks. lol Or should we make all dating sites all-inclusive?

Also, I heard somewhere that they're creating, or have created, a special service via eHarmony for gays.

]]> By: April http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1434 April Wed, 28 Jan 2009 15:08:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1434 plentyoffish.com is free too, as someone above mentioned. My co-worker really likes that site. I met my man on Craigslist of all places. I consider myself lucky though, and not the norm. plentyoffish.com is free too, as someone above mentioned. My co-worker really likes that site. I met my man on Craigslist of all places. I consider myself lucky though, and not the norm.

]]> By: theybelongtous http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1433 theybelongtous Wed, 28 Jan 2009 05:42:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1433 I don't know much about the dating site thing - as my people just appeared. :)<br /><br />However, a lot of poly-type folk seem to like OKCupid, and have found friends/lovers with that site. *shrug* Can't hurt, right?<br /><br />peace... I don't know much about the dating site thing – as my people just appeared. :)

However, a lot of poly-type folk seem to like OKCupid, and have found friends/lovers with that site. *shrug* Can't hurt, right?

peace…

]]> By: The Promo Homo http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1432 The Promo Homo Wed, 28 Jan 2009 00:09:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1432 Yeah, even if I was straight I'd boycott eHarmony. I wouldn't want my money going to a homophobic company. Yeah, even if I was straight I'd boycott eHarmony. I wouldn't want my money going to a homophobic company.

]]> By: Caplyst http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1431 Caplyst Tue, 27 Jan 2009 23:22:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1431 Fuck eHarmony they suck ass goddamn bible beaters!!! Fuck eHarmony they suck ass goddamn bible beaters!!!

]]> By: Raspberry Swirl http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1430 Raspberry Swirl Tue, 27 Jan 2009 22:20:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1430 I got that rejection form letter from eHarmony, too. I consider it a compliment that there's no one there that fits me, as those people are kind of, uh...stuffy. We'll go with stuffy.<br /><br />I have a profile on OKCupid, and it's alright. I dunno. If you find something decent, send a link my way! I got that rejection form letter from eHarmony, too. I consider it a compliment that there's no one there that fits me, as those people are kind of, uh…stuffy. We'll go with stuffy.

I have a profile on OKCupid, and it's alright. I dunno. If you find something decent, send a link my way!

]]> By: Ambitious Blonde http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1429 Ambitious Blonde Tue, 27 Jan 2009 19:30:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1429 My experiences with online dating haven't been terrific. I got a guy who emailed me on my birthday to let me know he had decided to make it serious with one of the other women he'd been dating and a sex offender. So the whole "why don't you try online dating" thing makes me stick my fingers in my ears and scream "lalala, can't hear you!" Then again, I kinda suck at dating anyway, so who's to say that it won't work for you? My experiences with online dating haven't been terrific. I got a guy who emailed me on my birthday to let me know he had decided to make it serious with one of the other women he'd been dating and a sex offender. So the whole "why don't you try online dating" thing makes me stick my fingers in my ears and scream "lalala, can't hear you!" Then again, I kinda suck at dating anyway, so who's to say that it won't work for you?

]]> By: John~ http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1427 John~ Tue, 27 Jan 2009 17:01:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1427 I've always liked okcupid and plentyoffish. Both are free, and you can find some good people mixed in with the wierdos (like the girl who wanted to give me herpes on our first date!) I've always liked okcupid and plentyoffish. Both are free, and you can find some good people mixed in with the wierdos (like the girl who wanted to give me herpes on our first date!)

]]> By: vast.tv http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1426 vast.tv Tue, 27 Jan 2009 16:59:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1426 I have a good friend and an ex who've both met nice people on OkCupid, of course they were both looking for other girls, so I don't know how that shifts the ratio of weirdos vs. non-weirdos. That said, I've heard many times, and not just from you, that eHarmony is restrictive, prudish and conservative in its dating criteria, so I think you should actually take it as a complement that they rejected you! <br /><br />As for my two cents, I say try both of the free sites for a month or so and then, if those don't work, go for chemistry.com and/or match.com. I have a good friend and an ex who've both met nice people on OkCupid, of course they were both looking for other girls, so I don't know how that shifts the ratio of weirdos vs. non-weirdos. That said, I've heard many times, and not just from you, that eHarmony is restrictive, prudish and conservative in its dating criteria, so I think you should actually take it as a complement that they rejected you!

As for my two cents, I say try both of the free sites for a month or so and then, if those don't work, go for chemistry.com and/or match.com.

]]> By: twg http://britisshameless.com/2009/01/reject/comment-page-1/#comment-1425 twg Tue, 27 Jan 2009 14:40:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=474#comment-1425 I did match, and it was full of serious weirdos for years, but then I met my ex on okcupid and we dated for two years. It's like a box of chocolates, Brit ... there's a bunch of gross ones in there, but you can probably find one or two reasonably tasty candies.<br /><br />I'm dumb today:) I did match, and it was full of serious weirdos for years, but then I met my ex on okcupid and we dated for two years. It's like a box of chocolates, Brit … there's a bunch of gross ones in there, but you can probably find one or two reasonably tasty candies.

I'm dumb today:)

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