Comments on: In Which I Finally Get The Fuck Over It http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Thu, 18 Nov 2010 02:47:46 +0000 hourly 1 By: Aarkey http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1165 Aarkey Sat, 03 Jan 2009 20:44:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1165 If a woman's hands aren't bound then I prefer for them to be either running through or pulling on my hair.<br /><br />Actually let me scratch that whole "prefer" nicety and go with "demand" instead. :) If a woman's hands aren't bound then I prefer for them to be either running through or pulling on my hair.

Actually let me scratch that whole "prefer" nicety and go with "demand" instead. :)

]]> By: figleaf http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1158 figleaf Sat, 03 Jan 2009 00:20:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1158 I'm not sure you need to worry too much where to put your hands, because it's sort of hard for him to see anyway if he's serious about eating you. So it should really be up to you where you want to put htem. Over your face in an "OMG" sort of way would be a problem, but... seriously... if that's where it feels most comfortable just do that anyway. Up over your head, pretending you're tied up worked for one of my partners (I finally asked her one day why she always did that, and not just when I ate her.) Riffing off what Tom said you could try putting them behind your knees: not everyone likes to have their legs up while they're being eaten, but the extra muscle tension in the legs is great for others. I think most of my partners have held my hands when I eat them, especially since I like to reach up and stroke their bellies and breasts at the same time.<br /><br />Finally I think it's great that you're experimenting with being eaten. If it really makes you uncomfortable then just don't, but if you're just on the fence then... the possible payoff of learning to enjoy it is pretty high.<br /><br />Good luck,<br /><br />figleaf I'm not sure you need to worry too much where to put your hands, because it's sort of hard for him to see anyway if he's serious about eating you. So it should really be up to you where you want to put htem. Over your face in an "OMG" sort of way would be a problem, but… seriously… if that's where it feels most comfortable just do that anyway. Up over your head, pretending you're tied up worked for one of my partners (I finally asked her one day why she always did that, and not just when I ate her.) Riffing off what Tom said you could try putting them behind your knees: not everyone likes to have their legs up while they're being eaten, but the extra muscle tension in the legs is great for others. I think most of my partners have held my hands when I eat them, especially since I like to reach up and stroke their bellies and breasts at the same time.

Finally I think it's great that you're experimenting with being eaten. If it really makes you uncomfortable then just don't, but if you're just on the fence then… the possible payoff of learning to enjoy it is pretty high.

Good luck,

figleaf

]]> By: Caplyst http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1142 Caplyst Wed, 31 Dec 2008 15:46:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1142 Great Idea Red! You are a solutions orientated person. An idea's kind of person. I could use you on my staff at work. Want a job? Great Idea Red! You are a solutions orientated person. An idea's kind of person. I could use you on my staff at work. Want a job?

]]> By: Red http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1140 Red Wed, 31 Dec 2008 01:03:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1140 I say if you don't know what to do with your hands while lying on your back, sit on his face! That way your hands can be used to steady yourself with the headboard or wall...also, you can look up and away more easily w/o him thinking your tweaking.<br /><br />Or, have him eat you out while you're on all fours...hands problem solved; plus, he can spank you or grab your ass more easily this way! ;D I say if you don't know what to do with your hands while lying on your back, sit on his face! That way your hands can be used to steady yourself with the headboard or wall…also, you can look up and away more easily w/o him thinking your tweaking.

Or, have him eat you out while you're on all fours…hands problem solved; plus, he can spank you or grab your ass more easily this way! ;D

]]> By: PAIN SLUT. http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1130 PAIN SLUT. Tue, 30 Dec 2008 08:28:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1130 smoke a cigarette, knit, cut coupons, braid his hair...ain't no thang. smoke a cigarette, knit, cut coupons, braid his hair…ain't no thang.

]]> By: Anonymous http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1128 Anonymous Mon, 29 Dec 2008 22:16:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1128 As a guy who really loves going down on women, I care a lot more about what signals her hands (and the rest of her body for that matter) are giving me than about what particular position they’re in. <br /><br />For me, if I noticed that my ladyfriend was freaking out unexpectedly, then I might pause and ask her what’s up. If she told me that she was nervous about receiving and wanted practice getting past it, I’d take that as a personal challenge and offer her as many oral orgasms as she could stand whenever she wanted until she was… erm… satisfied. :-)<br /><br />But that might just be me. I don’t know how the other penis-bearing members of the species feel about it. As a guy who really loves going down on women, I care a lot more about what signals her hands (and the rest of her body for that matter) are giving me than about what particular position they’re in.

For me, if I noticed that my ladyfriend was freaking out unexpectedly, then I might pause and ask her what’s up. If she told me that she was nervous about receiving and wanted practice getting past it, I’d take that as a personal challenge and offer her as many oral orgasms as she could stand whenever she wanted until she was… erm… satisfied. :-)

But that might just be me. I don’t know how the other penis-bearing members of the species feel about it.

]]> By: theybelongtous http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1122 theybelongtous Mon, 29 Dec 2008 20:53:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1122 I usually am grabbing and clenching whatever is closest to me: his/her head, arms, the sheets, etc. T usually wraps his arms around my thighs/hips (make sense?) so that his fingers are able to open me up a bit more, or has his arms/hands under my legs gripping my sides/breasts (make sense?). This gives me access to his hands/arms to hold on to.<br /><br />peace... I usually am grabbing and clenching whatever is closest to me: his/her head, arms, the sheets, etc. T usually wraps his arms around my thighs/hips (make sense?) so that his fingers are able to open me up a bit more, or has his arms/hands under my legs gripping my sides/breasts (make sense?). This gives me access to his hands/arms to hold on to.

peace…

]]> By: Caplyst http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1120 Caplyst Mon, 29 Dec 2008 18:28:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1120 play with your breasts. pinch your nipples etc.. play with your breasts. pinch your nipples etc..

]]> By: Tom http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1119 Tom Mon, 29 Dec 2008 18:00:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1119 Hmmm...so many possibilities and so little space to respond....<br /><br />If your partner is like me, there's nothing hotter than her helping me explore; hold yourself open for him.<br /><br />Dee's response is also quite nice; hold his hand(s) if they (or yours) are not already occupied (wicked grin...Thanks, Ms. I!)<br /><br />Grabbing the sheets is usually a great non-verbal cue that you are enjoying the moment...<br /><br />Finally, go ahead and grab his hair; pull him closer to you to show him how much you are enjoying his oral attention! Hmmm…so many possibilities and so little space to respond….

If your partner is like me, there's nothing hotter than her helping me explore; hold yourself open for him.

Dee's response is also quite nice; hold his hand(s) if they (or yours) are not already occupied (wicked grin…Thanks, Ms. I!)

Grabbing the sheets is usually a great non-verbal cue that you are enjoying the moment…

Finally, go ahead and grab his hair; pull him closer to you to show him how much you are enjoying his oral attention!

]]> By: John~ http://britisshameless.com/2008/12/in-which-i-finally-get-the-fuck-over-it/comment-page-1/#comment-1118 John~ Mon, 29 Dec 2008 16:40:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=423#comment-1118 I usually get hands on the back of my head or my shoulders.<br /><br />I see hands usually on breasts, thighs or wrapped up in the sheets. I usually get hands on the back of my head or my shoulders.

I see hands usually on breasts, thighs or wrapped up in the sheets.

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