Comments on: The Bartender Saga http://britisshameless.com/2008/09/the-bartender-saga/ I'm nothing but a brash and impetuous girl striving to be true to myself while searching for somewhere to belong, someone to love, and a better version of me. Thu, 18 Nov 2010 02:47:46 +0000 hourly 1 By: eva http://britisshameless.com/2008/09/the-bartender-saga/comment-page-1/#comment-409 eva Wed, 01 Oct 2008 13:24:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=261#comment-409 i've fallen for people who were clearly beneath me too, and have been through a lot of rubbish drama with people fucking with my head. the best way to avoid it is to avoid the people fucking with your head, in your case mr. bartender. the best thing would be not to let him contact you or say anything to you at all, even if it's hard, because such people can be manipulative beyond imagination. my ex tried everything to get attention from me, saying he loved me in one moment, and then that he had other girls and that i was nothing in the other - for then again to text me saying i had to call him or he would comitt suicide.. it wasn't out of love for me, it was because he needed attention - like a child, and he would do anything to get it. he didn't care if it was good or bad attention as long as i didn't forget him. don't fall for the lies, see other people, do other things, move on, there's so many NICE and AMAZING people out there who will only treat you well, so why waste time on someone who won't:) i've fallen for people who were clearly beneath me too, and have been through a lot of rubbish drama with people fucking with my head. the best way to avoid it is to avoid the people fucking with your head, in your case mr. bartender. the best thing would be not to let him contact you or say anything to you at all, even if it's hard, because such people can be manipulative beyond imagination. my ex tried everything to get attention from me, saying he loved me in one moment, and then that he had other girls and that i was nothing in the other – for then again to text me saying i had to call him or he would comitt suicide.. it wasn't out of love for me, it was because he needed attention – like a child, and he would do anything to get it. he didn't care if it was good or bad attention as long as i didn't forget him. don't fall for the lies, see other people, do other things, move on, there's so many NICE and AMAZING people out there who will only treat you well, so why waste time on someone who won't:)

]]> By: Britni TheVadgeWig http://britisshameless.com/2008/09/the-bartender-saga/comment-page-1/#comment-407 Britni TheVadgeWig Wed, 01 Oct 2008 04:40:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=261#comment-407 Thanks for the encouragement, you can never hear it too many times.<br /><br />And hi, new readers! I'm glad you found me! :) Thanks for the encouragement, you can never hear it too many times.

And hi, new readers! I'm glad you found me! :)

]]> By: Renewed in the Rockies http://britisshameless.com/2008/09/the-bartender-saga/comment-page-1/#comment-406 Renewed in the Rockies Wed, 01 Oct 2008 02:09:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=261#comment-406 I've already told you what I think...but just know that I support you! <br /><br />He is beneath you, doesn't care about anyone but himself, and most definitely doesn't deserve you.<br /><br />Don't tie yourself down to a douchebag. I've already told you what I think…but just know that I support you!

He is beneath you, doesn't care about anyone but himself, and most definitely doesn't deserve you.

Don't tie yourself down to a douchebag.

]]> By: Apollo Unchained http://britisshameless.com/2008/09/the-bartender-saga/comment-page-1/#comment-405 Apollo Unchained Tue, 30 Sep 2008 20:27:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=261#comment-405 Oh crap, he really is lame! I see now. Thanks for filling in the blanks.<br /><br />And you're a babe. Oh crap, he really is lame! I see now. Thanks for filling in the blanks.

And you're a babe.

]]> By: Caplyst http://britisshameless.com/2008/09/the-bartender-saga/comment-page-1/#comment-404 Caplyst Tue, 30 Sep 2008 19:15:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=261#comment-404 Saw your Blog through Seduction of Infedlity. Great Blog Keep up the great work! Saw your Blog through Seduction of Infedlity. Great Blog Keep up the great work!

]]> By: April http://britisshameless.com/2008/09/the-bartender-saga/comment-page-1/#comment-403 April Tue, 30 Sep 2008 18:33:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=261#comment-403 Hey! I found your blog via Fyrchks and I think it's crazy interesting! I feel like a stalker because over the past week or so I've been reading just about everything you've written. I keep coming back to read a few posts here and there, so I finally decided to comment and link you. <br /><br />Anyway, I too have always had the problem of falling for shitty guys. Shit, I even married one. (just ask Fyr about that) I finally came to a point in my life where I realized how much I had to offer and that I was sick of settling because either the guy was really hot or could fuck like a champ. <br /><br />As much as I liked the "bad boy" trait in a guy, I deemed it impossible to find a guy who would treat me the way I deserve to be treated AND have that "bad boy" trait. I decided that I needed the "nice guy". You know, the one who always finishes last. The problem with the "nice guy" is that he either a) really really sucked in bed b) had absolutely NO balls (figuratively speaking of course) or c) was ugly. And let's face it, there has to be attraction. <br /><br />But there are nice guys out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, fuck you the way you want or at least be willing to learn to fuck you the way you want (ex. my boyfriend), have some balls, be smart, funny AND attractive. Believe me, they are few and far between, but they're out there, I promise. <br /><br />Either way, you do deserve better and you know that. From what I've read you're very intelligent, funny, sexy, funny and honest. You don't deserve anything less so don't sell yourself short with asswipes like Bartender. <br /><br />Shit, my first comment is a fucking novel! Sorry. =( Hey! I found your blog via Fyrchks and I think it's crazy interesting! I feel like a stalker because over the past week or so I've been reading just about everything you've written. I keep coming back to read a few posts here and there, so I finally decided to comment and link you.

Anyway, I too have always had the problem of falling for shitty guys. Shit, I even married one. (just ask Fyr about that) I finally came to a point in my life where I realized how much I had to offer and that I was sick of settling because either the guy was really hot or could fuck like a champ.

As much as I liked the "bad boy" trait in a guy, I deemed it impossible to find a guy who would treat me the way I deserve to be treated AND have that "bad boy" trait. I decided that I needed the "nice guy". You know, the one who always finishes last. The problem with the "nice guy" is that he either a) really really sucked in bed b) had absolutely NO balls (figuratively speaking of course) or c) was ugly. And let's face it, there has to be attraction.

But there are nice guys out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated, fuck you the way you want or at least be willing to learn to fuck you the way you want (ex. my boyfriend), have some balls, be smart, funny AND attractive. Believe me, they are few and far between, but they're out there, I promise.

Either way, you do deserve better and you know that. From what I've read you're very intelligent, funny, sexy, funny and honest. You don't deserve anything less so don't sell yourself short with asswipes like Bartender.

Shit, my first comment is a fucking novel! Sorry. =(

]]> By: M.A.D. http://britisshameless.com/2008/09/the-bartender-saga/comment-page-1/#comment-402 M.A.D. Tue, 30 Sep 2008 18:23:00 +0000 http://britisshameless.com/?p=261#comment-402 The more I read about other people's relationships, the more grateful I am for my double dose of 334. The more I read about other people's relationships, the more grateful I am for my double dose of 334.

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